Everyone's life has twists and turns, but the key is how to face and overcome.
In the eyes of most people, the age of 30 is a watershed moment in life. Some people have achieved fame at this age, while others are still groping on the road of life. And our protagonist, at the age of 30, experienced the most difficult challenge in his life.
She was born into a broken family, her parents quarreled constantly, and her childhood was filled with fear and tears. As she grew older, she gradually learned to protect herself, wrapping her fragile heart in a shell of indifference. However, that didn't take her out of the shadows of her past.
Every time her parents quarreled, her mother would always vent her anger on her, saying that she was all kinds of bad, instilling all kinds of negative energy, and even sometimes beating and scolding her.
To know a personAfter being injured, we tend to protect ourselves like hedgehogs by closing our hearts and isolating our emotions.
If you don't feel it, it may not hurt.
But slowly, it will become the other extreme: I am very sad, but I can't cry. Anger, happiness, grievance. I don't have any emotions, and I do what I need to do like a robot.
Eventually, interest in life is lost, and everything is indifferent, unnecessary, and meaningless.
herI just remember that in front of my parents, I always walked on thin ice.
She only remembered the feeling that she had forgotten the reason for, but reinforced it over and over again in her heart: don't trust others, don't rely on others, even the closest ones.
She only remembered that from junior high school to high school, my only obsession was to escape, and she suppressed it.
At one point, she fell into depression and even doubted the value of her life. But at this seemingly desperate moment, she is determined to break free from the shadows of her past and start living for herself.
So she was admitted to the psychological counselor, as a psychological counselor, when she thought about what changes psychological counseling brought to her, she immediately thought of Monkey King.
Because her mother is like a Tang monk, and her mother has recited the mantra to her every day since she was a child.
If you can't understand yourself quietly, the so-called reconciliation is another defense.
First of all, she faced her heart and bravely faced her childhood experiences. She understands that only by forgiving the past can she be freed from it.
Secondly, she actively expands her life circle. She met like-minded friends, participated in various social activities, and gradually got rid of her loneliness. These fresh interpersonal interactions made her realize that the world was so beautiful and that she had the right to live happily ever after.
In the end, she strives to improve herself. She re-examines her career plan and pursues her dreams bravely. In the workplace, she has achieved excellent results with her firm belief and hard work. In addition, she also pays attention to her hobbies and hobbies, and learns skills such as yoga and painting to enrich her life.
Now, at the age of 30, she has regained her life. That unhappy childhood has become a stepping stone for her growth. She firmly believes that as long as we face it bravely, we can all find our own happiness.
Psychological counseling is a slow process in which life accompanies life, and life affects life.
Now that she has finally opened her mind, she has temperature, flesh and blood, and she really tastes the taste of life.
When we are willing to start the journey of self-exploration and self-change, having someone with us is not just more than just a little more professional support. It is more about experiencing a new experience in the interaction with the counselor, and gradually deepening this experience into the process of interacting with yourself and communicating with others.
Therefore, even after the consultation, this change will not go away, but will benefit us for the rest of our lives.
She is grateful for the counseling, which not only saved her childhood, but also allowed her to live a real life again, and this feeling is still so wonderful when I think about it now.
If you also want to explore yourself and change yourself, then the most important thing I want to tell you is to start your journey as soon as possible. This trip must be wonderful, full of surprises, and worthwhile.
Write at the end:
Life is like a colorful picture, and everyone is using their own colors to depict a unique growth trajectory. Thirty years old is just a brilliant starting point on this picture. At this moment, she broke free from the shackles of her hazy childhood, became a phoenix, and achieved self-redemption.
Her story is like a beacon that illuminates the hearts and minds of those in need. She told us that no matter how the years go by, as long as we have firm faith and courage, we can unlock the code of happiness and find our own light. And this power is the unique charm of being reborn at the age of 30.
Happy people spend their childhood ** for a lifetime, and unfortunate people use ** for a lifetime ** childhood.