The Chinese New Year is also the hottest period in the blind date market, especially when single men and women who work hard outside return to their hometowns, they will always be dragged by their parents to go on a blind date. When I was in my hometown, my cousin called ** and asked if the daughter of a neighbor here in our house had a boyfriend, and I was thinking of introducing her to one. The boy introduced by the cousin has a good family background, his father is doing engineering, his mother opened a beauty salon, and there are houses in the city and the county, the only deficiency is that the relationship between the parents is not very good, although there is no divorce, but they are all looking for someone outside. Originally, my neighbor's daughter was a little moved, but when she heard the last condition, she decisively refused: the original family is not good, so she will pass it directly. In the past, I always thought that the concept of a girl's mate selection was "having a car and a house", as long as the family conditions were good and the RV could be provided, nothing else was nothing, and even the age gap was not a problem. But in recent years, the style of painting has gradually changedThe first rule of "not marrying" on a blind date for girls is not that they don't have a house or a car, but that they pay more attention to their original family. 
There is a high probability that there is no problem with the personality of the children who are well cultivated by the original familyLast year's hit movie "Disappearing Her" is based on real events, due to the development of the Internet, let us see what is called "evil" in the world, we always think that the world is peaceful, we see the way, but there are a lot of darkness and viciousness hidden in the places we can't see. Therefore, I can also understand the demands of girls' parents: compared with family background, they still value character and family atmosphere. Of course, it does not mean that children from single-parent families will have problems, but at least there will be many more problems in the future. My downstairs mother, after getting married and having a baby, is all kinds of regrets, my husband's parents divorced in the early years, and my father was not idle after the divorce, and he was always busy finding a partner for his blind date. 
After giving birth to a baby, Bao's mother wanted to continue to work, but her mother-in-law had already divorced and gone abroad, which was the same as not having a mother-in-law, and it was inconvenient for her father-in-law to take the child. In desperation, I had to ask for help from my own mother, there are brothers and sisters-in-law at home, in fact, my brother and sister-in-law are not willing to let my mother come over to take the baby, but my mother is distressed that her daughter bought a ticket and came, during which my brother and sister-in-law said several times: I want my mother to come back to help take care of the eldest grandson, but my mother refused, and even my father at home can't stand it, so I directly told my wife: You bring a baby to your daughter, and you will die in the future, we don't care about you. Bringing the child to kindergarten and going back to my hometown, sometimes chatting, Bao Ma said: At that time, my mother persuaded me, I didn't listen, I felt that it was not a problem for two people to love each other, and I found out that it was a problem after getting married and having a baby, because my mother brought me a child, and my brother and sister-in-law didn't talk to me much. So on the surface, the family with a bad original family seems to be just a disagreement between the parents, but in fact, the problem is not as simple as it seems. Even if you are divorced, your parents are still parents, and this cannot be changed. If the parents remarry and have children after divorce, they will have to face half-brothers and sisters in the future, and the relationship will be even more chaotic. This was the case with a colleague whose parents divorced when he was very young, and both of them remarried. The father remarried and added a daughter. My colleague talked to his girlfriend for seven or eight years, but the woman's parents still did not agree with the marriage. Compared with this complex family environment, the parents of the original family live in harmony, even if they sometimes quarrel a few words, but at least the overall family atmosphere is good, the general direction of the children will basically not have any problems, and they do not have to face complex family interpersonal relationships after marriage. 
A complete family of origin becomes a plus in the blind date marketThe divorce rate in our country has been climbing in recent years, and people used to think that divorce was a shameful thing, but now divorce is not a big deal at all, and even the Internet says that "the next one will be more well-behaved". But once you have a child and divorce, it becomes different, a neighbor in her hometown, a man has an affair and divorces, a woman remarries with a child, and after remarriage, the woman gives birth to a son, of course the in-laws like their own grandchildren, as for the children brought over, the in-laws do not approve at all, the woman has to hand over the child to her mother, and the mother-in-law has a brother, and later the brother gets married and has a baby, even if the younger brother has no opinion, the younger daughter-in-law is not very willing. In such a family growth environment, how can there be no complaints in the hearts of children? 
Therefore, for the sake of their children's marriage happiness, the parents of the complete original family do not want their children to find the object of the divorced family, and the parents know as the past, although not all divorced families are bad. But when it is their child's turn to find a partner, I really can't afford to bet on the happiness of the child in the second half of his life, and the child who grew up in the loving environment of the parents of the original family is indeed much better. Not to mention the character defects caused by single-parent families to children. and the impact of distrust of the other half in the marriage on maintaining a healthy and long-lasting marriage. More importantly, the parents of the original family will definitely devote themselves to the sake of their children, and the married life of divorced families is mostly not peaceful. Do you agree with this point of view of the girl's parents?