As a woman, it's easy to fall in love, for example, if you're with a man, you will feel that this man is your everything, so you will say everything to this man, but in the end, you find that all this you say often doesn't bring the slightest benefit.
Therefore, many women will understand a truth after the age of 40, and it is better not to say something than to say it, so when a woman does this, this woman is really mature.
But some women still don't understand, so they will still say it in front of their husbands, and these three hole cards should not be shown in front of their husbands, especially after the age of 40, women should not be doing such stupid things.
Some of the situation in my mother's house
After a woman is with a man, you should know that although you are with this man, the people in your mother's family are often independent, and don't tell your husband everything in your family.
For example, sometimes the people in your mother's family are not so harmonious, so at this time you tell your husband about these things, and when your husband knows these things, he will not solve some things in your mother's family for you, but feel that your mother's family is a mess.
And women must understand a truth, that is: the people in the mother's family will always be your strongest backing, if a woman shows all the shortcomings in her mother's family to your man, to be honest, human nature can not stand the test. When your man learns about these situations, he may bully you in return.
You think that if you say something about your mother's house, your man will come to sympathize with you, or will be better to you. In fact, your man will become very unscrupulous, and don't test your humanity. Unless your man is really a really good man, don't say it.
How much money is in the private room
Don't tell your husband how much money you have, because although you have money, your husband must have some money. When your husband has some private money, your husband will not tell you about it, even if he tells you, it may not be true.
Women must have some of their own money in their own hands, when you have some money in your hands, you will find that you and your good friends go out for a meal and you will also become very generous, because you still have money in your hands, but if you don't have money, then others will also think that you are a particularly picky person.
Women can't tell their husbands how much money they have, sometimes you also need to take the man's salary card in your own hands, because now many women are thinking about getting something for nothing, and some women are married but will seduce other men, just to get other people's money, so the most important thing is to take money in the hands of women.
Sometimes when a man is with a woman outside, if the woman outside flatters the man, then the man will feel that the woman outside is a reasonable woman, and he will also feel that the woman outside knows herself very well, so at this time he will give everything to the other party.
So sometimes women should never think that a man is an animal with a high IQ, in fact, a man's IQ is sometimes really inferior to a woman's IQ.
Bottom line
Everyone has their own bottom line, and the same is true for a woman. But sometimes you have to be clear that everyone has their own range of capabilities, and they also have their own range of abilities that can withstand some things.
For example, sometimes you find that your husband has some entanglements with the woman outside, so at this time you can tolerate it, because your bottom line may be higher than this.
But at this time, you just can't bear it, you must let your husband know that your bottom line is particularly low, at this time you must express your dissatisfaction, and you must tell the other party: If the other party continues like this, the life of the two of you will come to an end.
So sometimes you have to have a very clear bottom line, but sometimes although your bottom line may be higher, then your tolerance range may be better, but you must let the other party know the seriousness of the matter, so don't let something casually.
Women must live transparently after the age of 40, and sometimes you must have your own ways and methods when you are a man.
Of course, this is not to say that you can learn to handle others, but to tell you that you should also pay attention to some ways of speaking in marriage, and after helping you pay attention to these things, you will find that you will come more relaxed.
Husbands and wives need to have one heart, but don't think that human nature should be like this, human nature often can't stand the test.