If you look at our current society, there are many things that make people scratch their heads. It's a strange phenomenon everywhere, and it sounds incredible. These things may seem normal to us, but when you think about it, it's really worrying. Is our society changing, or is the human heart not as pure as it used to be? Anyway, these phenomena really deserve our vigilance!
oVegetable sellers don't eat their own food, and chefs don't eat their own restaurantso
It's strange to say that the people who sell vegetables in the market now don't eat the dishes they sell, and even the chefs who cook don't eat the food they cook in their own restaurants. In the past, we all grew our own vegetables to eat, but now, we all go to the vegetable market to buy them, and pick those vegetables that look beautiful and have no insect eyes. But most of these dishes are sprayed with a lot of pesticides. The food cooked in those restaurants, although it tastes good, the chefs generally don't eat it much, do you know why? The kitchen is dirty and messy, cockroaches and rats are crawling everywhere, and even the oil is used up and renewed. Old chefs understand that the food outside is not clean, so they will never eat it themselves.
oThere are many "leftover women" in big cities, and most of the "leftover men" in rural areas are in rural areaso
You see, there are many "leftover women" in big cities, while "leftover men" are disaster in rural areas. What's going on? Girls in big cities would rather be single than settle. They pursue a high quality of life and do not want to compromise on marriage. However, because of the concept of preference for sons over daughters in rural areas, there are many boys, but girls want to marry in the city, and the result is that young men in rural areas cannot find a partner.
Today's young people's views on marriage have also changed, everyone picks and chooses, and the conditions are high and high, and no one wants to wronged themselves. I'd rather be happy alone, and no one wants to make do with it in marriage.
oThe entrance to the nursing home is empty; At the entrance of the kindergarten, there are groups of parentso
The current intergenerational relationship is really emotional. You see that the door of the nursing home is deserted, but the door of the kindergarten is a large number of parents. In the past, parents could raise several children in one family, but now several children cannot support an old man. Our parents worked hard to bring us up, and when we were old, some of them were lonely and could only go to nursing homes. And what about today's children, one is more pampered than the other, you see, just like the ancestors.
Not to mention those "giant babies", many people have grown up physically, but their minds are still like children. Lacking the ability to live independently since childhood, it is the same when you grow up. Such a phenomenon is not only a family problem, but also a big problem in society, which needs to be reflected on.
oIt is the uncle who owes the money, and it is the grandson who borrows the moneyo
When it comes to money, the current society is really laughable. When borrowing money, everyone is a good friend, and good things are said, but once the money is lent out, the relationship immediately turns sour. The one who owes money seems to have become an uncle, and the one who borrows money is like a grandson. Former friends, once involved in money, are likely to become enemies. That's why we always say, "It's easy to borrow money, it's hard to repay it", borrowing money can not only ruin money, sometimes even the relationship can be ruined together.
oThere are hundreds of friends on mobile phones, and there is no confidant in lifeo
There are hundreds of friends on the phone, but there are very few friends who can really make friends. Our *** variety and convenience, WeChat, QQ one by one, ** number one by one, but there are almost no people who can really speak from the heart and listen to you when you are sad.
This is actually quite embarrassing. Although social networking is convenient nowadays, it is mostly superficial communication and lacks depth. Everyone is busy swiping the screen and liking, but they forget to communicate face-to-face and real emotional exchanges. This proliferation of virtual socialization has made interpersonal relationships more and more shallow.
oInternet celebrities make money quickly, and their income is higher than that of scientistso
You ask young people nowadays which celebrity they like, and they can tell you a whole bunch of them. But if you ask a scientist, they probably won't even be able to name them. Nowadays, many Internet celebrities and celebrities make money surprisingly fast, filming a TV series, live broadcasting, and the income is frighteningly high. But some of them also evade taxes, which is really incomprehensible.
On the other hand, those unknown scientists, for the progress of mankind, have worked hard to research, but few people know about it. This phenomenon actually reflects some distorted values in the current society. People pay more attention to fame and fortune and superficial glamour, but ignore those people and things that really contribute and have depth.
oCats and dogs are treasures, and parents are burdenso
Nowadays, many people treat cats and dogs as treasures, but they treat their parents very coldly. In the past, people kept pets mostly for practicality, such as cats and mice, and dogs to watch the house. But now, pet ownership has become a kind of spiritual sustenance and an indispensable part of many people's lives.
There is certainly nothing wrong with having pets, and love for small animals is also a virtue. But the problem is that some young people pamper their pets too much, even more than they care about their parents. They are willing to spend money on their pets and the best food, but they are not willing to spend a penny more for their parents. I have time to chat and play with my pets, but I rarely communicate with my parents. This phenomenon of "cats and dogs as treasures, parents as burdens" is actually a warning to modern people. It's good to love pets, but don't forget that our families also need love and companionship.
Society is progressing, people's lifestyles are changing, but behind these changes, are there also some negative effects that we don't want to see? Are we in some way losing the traditional virtues and sincere warmth of human relationships?
These anomalies are not only social, but also individual. They remind us to always be vigilant, to keep a clear head, and not to be deceived by appearances. We must learn to find our place in a rapidly changing society, stick to the goodness and truth in our hearts, and make our lives healthier and better.