My son was about to get married, and I was anxious to ask my mother-in-law about their requirements. I was pleasantly surprised by her answer.
The prospective mother said that she would not ask for the bride price excessively, but hoped that the man would do his best according to his actual situation. They also plan to marry their daughter a car worth 200,000 yuan and provide an additional 100,000 yuan as a dowry.
What's even more touching is that the prospective mother promised to reward the young couple with another 100,000 yuan after her daughter gave birth. This kind of love and support for the next generation makes us feel warm. In addition, she also said that if we have difficulties in the preparation of the wedding banquet, they are willing to generously lend us 180,000 yuan to ensure that the wedding banquet is grand and festive.
She hopes that both parents can maintain neutrality when their children have conflicts, and avoid short-term protection and domestic violence. Young couples should have an independent living space after marriage and maintain their freedom and privacy.
Most importantly, both parents should respect the life choices of the young couple and give them as much help and support as possible, rather than interfering and causing trouble.
We are deeply fortunate to meet such a reasonable in-laws. We decided that after our daughter-in-law passed through the door, we must love and take care of her like our own daughter.