1. Don't share your child's shortcomings.
Children are constantly growing and changing, and they don't easily label them.
Don't laugh at your child's flaws, accept them authentically. Only in this way can children feel truly loved by their parents, rather than only being excellent.
Only when parents keep their mouths shut can they protect their child's self-esteem and confidence, convince them that he has unlimited possibilities, and those around him will have good expectations for him.
Second, don't say that the child is not.
Children are the softest place in the hearts of parents. The ancients once said: "You are in my heart, but for my children." This sentence condenses how many parents' deep expectations and love for their children.
In daily life, when their children make mistakes or are not satisfied, some parents will mention their children's mistakes in front of outsiders in order to vent their emotions. But really, is it really good to do so?
Confucius once said: "His body is upright, and he does not give orders; His body is not right, although he does not obey orders. This quote tells us that the behavior of parents has a direct impact on their children.
Our words and deeds, no matter how big or small, will leave a deep imprint on the hearts of our children.
If we want our children to learn to respect others, then we ourselves should first be their role models and demonstrate through our actions what true respect and trust are.
As parents, we should always remember the importance of building trust with our children and maintaining their self-esteem and privacy. This will not only help them gain more respect outside, but also make family relationships more harmonious and their children grow up healthier.