You know, after leaving the so-called career gate, I really understood a few things. It may sound a little heart-wrenching, but I've found that the sooner we understand this, the better. Let's not talk about the kind of lofty truth here, let's talk about the "pits" that you, I and he may step on.
You may have heard the saying: "Starting a business is looking for death, and part-time work is waiting for death." "Sounds scary, right? But when you think about it, waiting to die does sound even more terrifying. On the news, it is always reported that so-and-so boss went bankrupt and so-and-so boss jumped off the building, which looks quite miserable. But think about it from another angle, are those migrant workers who clock in and out every day really safe? No! When it comes to layoffs, job losses, or having to leave their homes because they don't have money, these unfortunate people add up to a lot of them.
Let's talk about the job that seems to be as stable as an old dog in the system. I myself have seen many people who work as seemingly stable "contract workers" or "labor dispatch workers" in central enterprises, and can retire with dignity when they are old. But have you ever thought that in private companies, especially those so-called conscientious foreign-funded enterprises, it is really rare to be able to sit in an office at the age of 50.
This is not just a problem for private enterprises. The reality is that if you want to live by part-time work, those companies that can lose a little money when laying off employees are considered conscientious enterprises. Most companies will use all kinds of means to make you unbearable to walk away without even a penny of compensation.
If you're ready, I'm very supportive of entrepreneurship. But if you have no choice but to start a business because you can't find a job, I have to say, it's better to dispel this idea as soon as possible. Most of the failed entrepreneurs are the latter. And those who are well prepared, no matter what, at least it's okay to eat with a mouthful of food. Starting a business requires experience, ability, and capital. If you don't have anything and just want to take a stud, you might as well go straight to the casino or buy a lottery ticket, maybe you can get lucky.
If you have been working for many years, you haven't saved much money, resources have not been established, and your ability has not been raised, then you really have to think about it, what have you been doing all these years?
And don't expect too much from your former colleagues and friends. Maybe people have opened a company now, become a big boss, and become a big name in the industry. You may think that your relationship is quite iron, and people will reach out and pull you along. But the reality is often cruel, people may have changed circles a long time ago, and they are so busy that they can't even take care of themselves, so how can they still take care of you.
Besides, when you decide to start your own business, don't expect anyone to stand by your side. The start-up employees around you are actually another form of migrant workers, who don't feel the pressure you are facing and can't bear the burden on your shoulders.
People are always easily assimilated by their surroundings and by the behavior of most people. Have you ever wondered why everyone is making PPT, and you have to do PPT too; Everyone works overtime, and you have to work overtime; Everybody's doing the job, and you have to do the same. But have you ever stopped to wonder if there's a better way to do this?
For example, if conditions permit, you can consider paying someone to help you make a plan; Or take advantage of a variety of tools and plug-ins to increase productivity. There is never only one path to go in life, and following the crowd is definitely the worst choice. Only by combining their own actual situation and giving full play to their own strengths and advantages can they find their own way in this complex world.
In this world, there is no absolute security and stability. No matter how steady we walk every step we take, and no matter how careful we make every decision, there is no guarantee that we will not encounter accidents and changes. But it is these challenges and uncertainties that make our lives full of possibilities and uncertainties. We can choose to settle for the status quo and wait for death; You can also bravely face challenges and find your own piece of heaven. Whether it's starting a business or working part-time, the key is to find a path that suits you, and then go on without regrets. After all, isn't life a big adventure? We are all on this path, looking for our own direction and home.