After middle age, you will find that you have a more thorough view of life and the people around you. You know exactly what to do, what not to do, and what kind of people you should associate with and what to avoid.
When we realize what kind of people are beneficial to associate with, life and life will be better for the better. There is a good saying: "The kind of person you are with will be the kind of person you will become." "When you surround yourself with people who are cultivated and motivated, you are also influenced by them to become equally good people. Conversely, if you surround yourself with negative people, you may also become negative and be influenced by them.
There is a magnetic field in human beings, and when we are affected by the magnetic field of others, we will gradually become like them. Therefore, after middle age, we should strive to be close to those who can nourish us.
Surround yourself with the people who nourish you, and you will find life a better place and yourself more peaceful. Because you will be influenced by their peaceful temperament and gradually become like them. I have a friend who has an unhappy marriage and a family conflict. Every time I talk to her, I feel irritable. Her life was full of quarrels and pain, and her husband and in-laws treated her extremely badly. Having lived in such an environment for more than four years, she confided in me after every fight. At first I comforted her, but gradually I realized that persuasion did not work, and she was still in pain.
If the people around you are always full of negative energy, you will also be affected and feel painful and uncomfortable. Therefore, we should strive to be close to those who are peaceful and let their positive energy infect us.
Surround yourself with the people who nourish you, and you will find yourself becoming more and more positive and better. Life is like this, when the people around us are positive, we will also be influenced by them to become positive. On the contrary, if the people around us are always complaining and anxious, we will also be infected and become negative.
Yesterday I was chatting with a friend and found that her account traffic suddenly dropped sharply, and the data became very poor. Faced with this situation, she did not feel anxious or depressed, but accepted it calmly and continued to work hard to write. Her positive attitude was deeply contagious to me and made me become positive as well.
Therefore, we should strive to be close to those who are positive and let their positive energy infect us and stimulate our potential.
Sometimes we may feel lost and confused, caught in a kind of internal friction from which we cannot extricate ourselves. This is when we need to surround ourselves with those who are awake and let them help us see the essence and truth of the problem.
For example, in marriage, if we have been hoping and trying to give, but the other person does not care about our feelings or even hurts us, we need to be soberly aware that this is not true love and does not really care. It is only when we see the truth clearly and let go of our obsessions that we can get rid of the pain and change our lives for the better.
Surfacing someone who is sober allows us to become more sane and calm, analyze problems and make the right decisions. Therefore, we should strive to be close to those who can help us stay awake.
People who can nourish us can make us better, better, and happier. With them, we can continue to cultivate ourselves, improve our cultivation and quality, and make our lives better. Therefore, at all times, we should learn to be close to those who can nourish us, and grow and progress with them. After middle age, we should cherish such opportunities to get close to the person who can nourish us, and make the rest of our lives more exciting and meaningful.