I saw such a ** on the Internet, a mother promised her child that the test score was above 90 points, and the snack area of the supermarket counted down to 10 seconds, so the children under the mother's lens frantically threw various flavors of potato chips into the shopping cart, which is just a mother's usual daily sharing. However, in the comment area of this **, a wave of "boring adults" emerged, "Why don't you take the expensive ones, don't take durian, beef jerky, Ferrero's chocolate" "This kid is too inconsiderate of adults, how much does half a car of potato chips cost?" ”
When I watched **, the happiest thing was that the adults in this house were great, she did what she said and didn't be a disappointing parent; The children of this family are very happy, she has a mother who can hold her up for ten seconds of happiness, and those ten seconds of indulgence and laughter make her life colorful enough.
The appearance of adults weighing the pros and cons is indeed realistic, and it is indeed bitter, which must be full of the losses and sufferings they have suffered. But in the same way, if one's life is all about calculations, it is too boring. Looking back at myself, I found that we have all unconsciously become "boring adults" in the eyes of young people.
In the crowded and congested morning rush hour, I was a low-headed person, I counted the time in the pantry to fish and get off work, I filled my abdomen with the happy water of the fat house, I talked technical words with familiar or unfamiliar people, I only knew how to spread out on the sofa and swipe my mobile phone after being tired and overtime, and I was so sleepy that I often had insomnia......In this kind of life, day after day, we can't think of anything wonderful and happy when we get up every day, but there is always a bunch of complicated work in our minds.
We have accepted the boring life, lost the utopia of the fantasy world, lost the strange ideas, and no longer ran for the beautiful scenery.
Looking back, when did I start to get a little bored? I used to be a person who loved to record every detail, and every day I seemed to have endless stories and feelings, endless mood logs, flowers and plants that I had never seen in the cracks of the stones, red clouds at sunset, and barbecue ...... on the baking trayThe slightest thing in life can make me excited for a long time, but I gradually lost my love and curiosity about the trivial things in life, and became boring and timid, cowardly and anxious.
We seem to have become "qualified adults", but we often miss our past selves and miss our former "uninteresting" and brave appearance. Spend a day organizing photo albums, making **, and recording the beauty of daily life; We will all be moved by our diligence and gain courage in failure again and again to meet the next challenge.
But now, many people forget to look at the beautiful scenery on the roadside in their busy lives, and lose the ability to please themselves in the pursuit of high-paying and comfortable jobs. In addition to the gradually heavy fat on the body, more serious cervical spondylosis, stomach problems, the adjective "interesting" is getting farther and farther away from us.
Children know more about the joy of life than adults. "Innocence" is not a word exclusive to children, it is an attitude to life, an attitude of exploration that everything can be a source of happiness.
We can't always have childhood, but we can always have childlike fun, and childlike fun does not disappear with the passage of time. Yu Xiuhua said in "Unprovoked Joy" that "most things without purpose are beautiful things, because they are pure, pure and the root of happiness." ”
**10,000 Fans Incentive Plan
Only by experiencing the pure joy of life can we be liberated from the future and the past.
Of course, you can listen to very sad songs and have nothing to do, but I want you to look outside at the sun, the stars, the moon, the pedestrians, the trees, the flowers, the raindrops, the animals, ......It's also fun to see the world, and you shouldn't be a boring adult in such a colorful world.
Click "watching", and may we all find ourselves who are "always passionate about life".