Classics are classics
When a love ends, the one who can't let go will suffer a little longer!
Qi Yuanruo regretted it all his life, when he had the opportunity to marry Minglan in the first place, why didn't he go to the Sheng family to propose marriage earlier.
Don't say anything, the little grandfather's timidity and cowardice are not worthy of Minglan because the director didn't let them be together.
Gu Tingye grew up in Goolan Tile House since he was a child, and read all the love between men and women in the world**, and later after being "tempered" by such a 'master' as Manniang, his sobriety and cognition of the relationship between men and women are more than all men of the same age in the play.
Therefore, when Gu Tingye was sure that he was going to marry Minglan , Minglan was destined to marry into the Gu family.
And the little grandfather is pure love for Minglan without a trace of calculation, although his methods are clumsy, he wants to give Minglan his true heart.
If Qi Yuanruo's fault in marrying Minglan is nothing more than a lack of understanding of his family environment, he underestimated his parents' control over his future, thinking that with his parents' love and doting on him, making a fuss would make the county lord and the grandfather of the country soft-hearted, so he agreed to him.
And after he lost his wife, he wanted to give Minglan a decent marriage ceremony, which is also a normal thinking. Originally, he had failed Minglan once before, and the other party had suffered a lot of grievances because of him. Then, when he had the opportunity to marry Minglan again, he wanted to give the other party a more decent marriage proposal ceremony after the move, which could be regarded as a compensation for Minglan for the grievances he had suffered before. What's wrong with that?
It's just that he didn't expect that Gu Tingye would be killed halfway through the courtship. The little grandfather has always been emotional, and Gu Tingye wanted to get Minglan from the beginning, and he was rational and sober every step of the planning step. So, in the love field, how could the little grandfather be Gu Tingye's opponent?
A sincere sincerity has no possibility of winning in the face of rational thinking. If Qi Yuan is one step late, he will regret it for the rest of his life.
The little grandfather has never let go of Minglan all his life, she is the white moonlight of his life.
Qi Yuanruo and Minglan are each other's first love, but the little grandfather's love is warm and pure, and Minglan is smart and precocious because she is the concubine in the family, she also likes the little grandfather, but she doesn't dare to love, so her feelings for the little grandfather are to refuse and welcome, want but dare not ask, in the entanglement of a few steps forward, when the expected blow quickly retreated to the original position.
In the final analysis, two people who should have been happy with each other, because of the huge disparity between each other and the lack of support from both parents, a hazy love is destined to have no results.
The influence of the growth environment on people is huge, and Minglan is rational and restrained in choosing marriage, which is largely due to her background and growth environment, and even the education of Mrs. Sheng later.
And the same is true for Qi Yuanruo. At the beginning, he threatened his parents with a hunger strike to hurt himself, but he failed to achieve his goal, and after he was forced to marry the county lord of Jiacheng, he also became emotionally mature. Since he can't be the master of his own family affairs, then let him go, and marry whoever his parents tell him to marry, anyway, as long as it's not Minglan , it's the same for anyone to marry.
Although in the play "Do You Know", the little grandfather finally let go of Minglan and raised his eyebrows with his wife Shen. But, who will forget their unforgettable first love? What's more, it is still a rich idler like the little grandfather who was born in the nest of wealth, eats and drinks without worry, and has a well-known career, he is the one who has more affection, and he is also sincere, so he will never forget it for the rest of his life.
Therefore, love is a thing, who can't let go, who can feel the pain more.
Minglan is free and easy, from her 'unlove' and sobriety.
The daughters of the Sheng family are all extremely sober and purposeful about marriage - to live a comfortable and good life.
Minglan has long known that it is impossible between her and the little grandfather, the gap between the family is huge, and the noble county lord and the head of the Sheng family, Sheng Hong, who cherishes the reputation of the family, are the gaps that Minglan and the little grandfather cannot cross.
However, there is no girl who is pregnant with spring, and she can be unmoved in the face of the pursuit of the person she likes. Emotionally, Yuan Ruo's enthusiasm and Minglan timidity are also the beauty and bitterness of this beautiful first love.
In the face of such an excellent little grandfather, Minglan was of course happy, and even had a moment of delusion. However, when the county lord's mother asked Yuan Ruo to recognize Minglan as her sister in the name of participating in the wedding in front of the two generations of the Sheng family's housewife on the day of Sheng Changbai's wedding, the love that Minglan had imagined in her heart was quietly extinguished alone.
She is too sober, she knows what she can fight for and what she can't touch; She knows what kind of life she wants to live in the future, and what kind of family she should choose to live a comfortable and good life; Her rationality about marriage comes from her mother's experience and her life experience in the Sheng family for so many years.
Thinking about these clearly, and also understanding the county lord's attitude and the little grandfather's 'ability' in this matter, she completely let go in her heart. If you don't think about what you can't get, you can maintain a happy state of mind, and it is easier for you to feel happy. Minglan can afford to put it down, her free and easy and rational decision-making ability is her character and her summary of her past life.
The regret of losing a loved one cannot be remedied by anything.
In the drama "Do You Know", Qi Yuanruo's love experience is the process of a young, sunny, and beautiful boy who has gone from the beginning of love to maturity. When you meet your favorite person at the best age, but you miss out on your love because of your own reasons, this regret will accompany you for a lifetime.