"Let's break up, my mom doesn't approve of our relationship! ”
Hu Ge resolutely gave up his girlfriend Xue Jianing, who had been dating him for many years, because of his mother's words, and this decision made him be crowned with the title of "Ma Bao Man", and Xue Jianing's years of companionship were in vain.
Although he originally became popular with the "Fairy Sword" series and became a famous actor in the domestic entertainment industry.
15 years have passed, Hu Ge not only announced that "mother and daughter are safe", but also relied on "Prosperity" to reach the peak of his career again, and his love career has been harvested. In contrast, Xue Jianing, who was once unsettled, quit the entertainment industry as early as 2016 and switched to Buddhism....
What did Xue Jianing experience in this relationship? What is her current state of life?
Although Xue Jianing was born in Heilongjiang, her personality is not as big as a typical Northeast person, but exudes a calm and restrained temperament. She grew up in an intellectual environment, so she developed good study habits.
Xue Jianing not only showed excellent academic performance from an early age, but also excelled in art.
When she was only a few years old, she appeared on the stage of many literary and artistic activities, and became the "child of other people's families" praised by countless elders, because she was indeed talented.
Not only did she do her duty as the director of the national tour of local children's programs, but she also won numerous literary medals in one year at the age of eight, and was named one of the "Top Ten Campus Stars in the Province".
Perhaps because of her childhood experience, Xue Jianing was full of longing for acting, and finally successfully chose this path and became a top student at the Shanghai Theater Academy. In addition, she has an outstanding image, and in her freshman year alone, she has taken on countless commercials and scripts.
Xue Jianing has become the most eye-catching existence among many handsome guys and beauties, and even Zhang Yi is not far from the school she attends, and she often comes to see the goddess with the encouragement of her roommates, and even thinks that she is the unreachable person in her life.
Xue Jianing became famous in 2003 for starring in the popular hit drama "Pink Girl", and her role as "Ha Mei" in the play was deeply loved by the audience, which made her popularity quickly climb to the peak, and then she also got the opportunity to participate in "Unparalleled in the World".
Maybe Xue Jianing didn't realize at the time that this cooperation would have a huge impact on her life, because the actor of the film and television work is Yuan Hong, and he and Hu Ge are very close friends, and they are inseparable brothers.
Hu Ge met Xue Jianing through Yuan Hong, was deeply fascinated by her, and even began to regard her as his sweetheart. However, at that time, Xue Jianing was already a hot person in the entertainment industry, and Hu Ge was just an unknown junior.
A year later, Hu Ge won the role of the leading actor in the "Fairy Sword" series and successfully became popular. At this opportunity, he confessed to Xue Jianing, but unfortunately was refused.
The reason is that Xue Jianing is 4 years older than Hu Ge, and she is worried about the age gap between the two.
However, Hu Ge didn't care and launched a long-term pursuit. Eventually, they opened up and chose to be together in 2006, and the following year they were **discovered and ended their relationship.
They neither disguised nor denied the relationship.
Just when everyone is busy immersed in their relationship with each other, a terrible disaster suddenly befalls them.
Hu Ge had just finished filming with the crew, but on the way back, he suffered a serious car accident, and even suffered facial injuries, and unfortunately, even his assistant died.
This accident had a great impact on Hu Ge, because the position where the assistant was sitting at that time should have been given to Hu Ge. But because the assistant was too tired, he took the initiative to give way to him, but he didn't expect this move to save his life, which made Hu Ge feel guilty.
That year, Hu Ge was not only extremely disgusted with himself, but also had no desire for life, so he had been depressed for a long time, but fortunately, Xue Jianing was always by his side.
Everyone thought that after Hu Ge**, they could look forward to the good news between him and Xue Jianing, but fate played tricks on us unexpectedly.
It wasn't until 15 years later that Hu Ge disclosed his wife and daughter, and people were surprised to find that the partner next to him was no longer the person he was at the beginning.
After Xue Jianing had a car accident that year, she went straight to the hospital to take care of Hu Ge regardless of her work and huge liquidated damages. Whether it is the care of daily life or psychological comfort, Xue Jianing has devoted all her strength.
His girlfriend deeply touched Hu Ge, so he gradually got out of his depressed state and was full of hope for life again. Xue Jianing has been taking care of Hu Ge for nearly a year.
During this time, Xue Jianing not only selflessly gave up all her time, but even abandoned her job, and took care of Hu Ge's living conditions wholeheartedly, so as to become his intimate companion, so that Hu Ge achieved a huge transformation physically and mentally.
A year later, just when ** and netizens were expecting good news between them, something unexpected happened - they announced their breakup in 2009, which confused many people.
Just after everyone learned the truth, everyone felt unfair for Xue Jianing, because the relationship between them was originally very good, and there was no contradiction between the two, but it was blocked by Hu Ge's mother's "disagree".
Xue Jianing broke up with Hu Ge mysteriously, which made her years of hard work go to waste in an instant, and she suffered a huge blow physically and mentally, but she never said a word in public that was not Hu Ge.
Therefore, many netizens were dissatisfied with Hu Ge's attitude, and even many insiders were confused. In the end, Hu Ge was labeled as a "Ma Bao Man", although every time he mentioned Xue Jianing, his eyes were red and full of regret.
Hu Ge's mother suffered from breast cancer when he was five or six years old, which made him take care of his mother in every way with filial piety, and never disobeyed her, for fear of making his mother unhappy. Even in front of the people he likes, Hu Ge will take the initiative to give up.
Therefore, Hu Ge felt deeply guilty about Xue Jianing in his heart, but they always kept in touch, and even after Xue Jianing devoted himself to stage plays and dramas, Hu Ge often appeared under the stage, quietly ** his favorite girl.
Although he is very reluctant in his heart, and even often expresses his admiration for Xue Jianing in public, in reality, the gap between Hu Ge's mother and Xue Jianing is still a huge obstacle.
Despite the passage of time, decades have passed. Just when everyone thought that the two of them would remain single forever, a news that shocked everyone refreshed their perception of Hu Ge - in February 2023, Hu Ge announced that his daughter had arrived.
Hu Ge had already secretly married his assistant Huang Xining and successfully ushered in a lovely daughter, this amazing news directly caused the shock of many people inside and outside the circle, and they expressed regret for Xue Jianing.
Hu Ge's mother also hoped to have a daughter-in-law who could take care of Hu Ge's daily life, obviously, even if Xue Jianing had put down her work to take care of Hu Ge, she was still not the most satisfactory candidate in Hu's mother's mind.
And Huang Xining was originally Hu Ge's assistant, and he has been by his side for many years...
This choice is actually not surprising, after all, such situations are very common in the entertainment industry. Many male stars who have never been married eventually choose to spend the rest of their lives with their assistants. And at the end of 2023, Hu Ge has also reached the peak of his career.
Although Hu Ge once suffered a serious car accident that resulted in facial injuries, fortunately his later ** condition was not bad.
Coupled with his excellent acting skills and handsome appearance, he has won the love of many netizens, so after "The Pretender" and "Langya Bang", Hu Ge successfully returned to the peak of the film and television industry.
Prosperous", a hit drama at the end of the year, once again made Hu Ge, who had not had a new work for many years, the focus of the audience's attention again. Since he announced that his mother and daughter are safe, he has implicitly said that he may focus more on his family.
At the same time, Xue Jianing, who has disappeared for many years, is still alone, but her life trajectory and Hu Ge have long since parted ways, and they are destined to never intersect.
Xue Jianing's first love was Hu Ge, and he was also her only boyfriend. Since the two broke up, Xue Jianing has never had private communication with other male artists or men.
Although Xue Jianing has endless nostalgia for this relationship, she finally has to accept the fact that she and Hu Ge are in the past.
Although they have been friends for the past ten years, they both know that nothing will come of each other after that.
Xue Jianing decided to focus her attention on work, trying to use her work to cover up her deep regrets. However, a few years passed, and she suddenly realized that work was no longer the whole of her life.
So he announced his retirement from the entertainment industry and embarked on a journey around the world. For a long time in the future, the frequency of updates on Xue Jianing's social platform has decreased significantly. It wasn't until 2017 that she suddenly broke the news that she had decided to convert to Buddhism and let go of the troubles of the world.
Xue Jianing is indeed an admirable brave woman, she may still maintain her original style, but it is clear from her choice that she is different from her previous self, but is living the truest way in her heart.
Xue Jianing no longer pays attention to fame and fortune in her past life, but prays intently and prays to the gods sincerely. When she was traveling around the world, she met a master in ** and chose to follow the master to practice at the moment. This experience gave her a new light in her heart.
Over the years, Xue Jianing has rarely appeared in public, just to explore a unique life journey and meet a new stage. I believe that in this process, she also experienced a lot of difficulties, after all, she had to adapt to a new lifestyle.
However, now Xue Jianing has become more modest and composed, not only her demeanor is broad and profound, but also reveals endless charm and compassion, which has brought great touch.
Perhaps for many people, the relationship between Xue Jianing and Hu Ge is an uneasy experience. The fate between them may have been destined for a long time, but now Hu Ge has his own family, and Xue Jianing has lived out his true self.
In the experience of following the master's practice, perhaps this is what is more meaningful to Xue Jianing, because now she has completely experienced the baptism of the soul, and she has found inner peace and strength in her rejuvenation.
Xue Jianing embarks on a journey to ** once a year, because she believes that ** is the closest place to the clouds and the closest to the gods and heaven, which can make her forget everything....