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Zou Wei and Yan Ni met through a blind date, when Yan Ni was 25 years old and started a blind date at the urging of her mother. Their first blind date was tall and handsome, but the voice was awkward, and they had nothing to say, so they parted in embarrassment.
The second blind date was Zou Wei, a handsome and upright retired soldier who left a good first impression on Yan Ni. The two fell in love at first sight, and they chatted very speculatively when they first met, and they chatted for 2 hours for the first time.
Yan Ni and Zou Wei felt very comfortable and happy together. After that, they went on a few more dates, and Zou Wei took the initiative to take her to a high-end restaurant and personally took her hand. Yan Ni was moved by Zou Wei's romance and meticulousness, and took the initiative to agree to date him.
After a year of getting along, Zou Wei proposed to Yan Ni, and in a romantic atmosphere, the two promised to be together forever. Soon after, they held a grand wedding in Beijing, where family and friends attended and gave them their best wishes, allowing them to enter the palace of marriage.
Yan Ni's parents are very optimistic about Zou Wei, a son-in-law, and praise him for being excellent and down-to-earth, and he will definitely be able to give Yan Ni happiness. On the wedding night, Zou Wei gently hugged Yan Ni, and the two were full of happy smiles and full of good expectations for their future lives.
When the young couple first got married, life was very sweet. Zou Wei cares about Yan Ni very much and often takes her out to play, which makes her feel very happy.
After Zou Wei and Yan Ni got married, Zou Wei stayed in Beijing to work, while Yan Ni went to Lanzhou to film. The separation of the two places makes the small couple get together less and leave more. Whenever Yan Ni's filming assignment is over, she will immediately return to Beijing to reunite with Zou Wei.
Zou Wei was very distressed to see his wife going back and forth, and he suggested that she find a job in Beijing, so that he could take good care of her. But Yan Ni insisted that she didn't want to give up her acting career and politely rejected Zou Wei's proposal.
Two years later, Yan Ni and Zou Wei welcomed their daughter Zou Yuanqing. In order to return to work as soon as possible**, Yan Ni only eats light boiled vegetables. Seeing that she was eating so hard, Zou Wei couldn't help but persuade her to give up her work and focus on her family.
But Yan Ni still believes that she will succeed and has not given up her dream of being an actress.
The life after marriage is not the same as the sweetness that Zou Wei imagined. He looks forward to sleeping with his wife every night and having breakfast together in the morning. However, the reality is that Yan Ni is often not around.
Zou Wei's heart became more and more lost, he longed for his wife's company and care, but Yan Ni was so focused on her career that she ignored his feelings.
One day three years later, Yan Ni returned to Beijing after work as usual, and found that Zou Wei's face was very bad, and the whole person was in a bad state. She asked him with concern what was wrong, and Zou Wei choked up and said that he really couldn't bear this life anymore, it was too lonely and lonely, and he needed love and companionship.
After this serious conversation, the two decided to separate for a while to think calmly. In the end, they opted for divorce. The day they signed the divorce agreement, they burst into tears, and their once sweet marriage came to an end.
After the divorce, Zou Wei became skinny and haggard. And Yan Ni was also physically and mentally exhausted, she didn't expect this relationship to end in a breakup.
Soon after the divorce, Yan Ni received a notice from "Wulin Gaiden", a role that means a lot to her and is the starring opportunity she dreamed of. Although she was depressed at the time, she still chose to join the group and start filming for the sake of her career.
Although this film is a comedy, Yan Ni was on the verge of collapse throughout the filming process. She forced a smile in front of the camera, and once the director shouted "card", she would cry into tears.
Every night, she sat on the balcony, staring at the moon in a daze, and it was difficult to sleep. She struggled to support her work, and that's her code name.
After the filming, Yan Ni's condition was obviously not as good as during the filming, her face was pale and she lost a lot of weight, which made the director sigh that she looked ten years older. Seeing Yan Ni's tiredness, her mother-in-law took the initiative to invite her home for dinner, and specially made many of her favorite dishes, hoping that she would be happier.
Her mother-in-law has always cared for Yan Ni, like a daughter, which touched Yan Ni very much.
Yan Ni later had an ambiguous relationship with a boy who was 9 years younger than her, but in the end it only lasted for a short time. This boy was too clingy, so Yan Ni couldn't stand it, and finally chose to break up.
After "Wulin Gaiden" was broadcast on TV, Yan Ni became popular overnight and successfully transformed. However, her love life has been a blank slate. Once, her mother-in-law tried to get her back together with her ex-boyfriend Zou Wei, but she refused, believing that the two could never be together again.
In her career, Yan Ni has achieved great success, but the spiritual world is still empty and lonely. She kept telling herself to be strong, but in the dead of night, bits and pieces of the past would come flooding back to her mind, making it difficult for her to calm down.
She began to reflect on the meaning of life and try to find a balance between work and relationships.
After the divorce, Zou Wei spent a period of time adjusting his mentality and re-entering society. He let go of his grudge with Yan Ni and decided to start over. Later, he met a virtuous and lovely woman, and the two gradually fell in love, and finally Zou Wei mustered up the courage to propose to her.
Compared with his previous marriage to Yan Ni, Zou Wei paid more attention to establishing a deep emotional foundation with his new love this time. He will take the time to communicate with his new love and understand her thoughts better.
On the wedding night, Zou Wei said to the bride very affectionately: "I will take care of you for the rest of your life, so that you will no longer suffer any grievances." Looking at the bride's shy smile, Zou Wei's heart was full of hope.
This time, he made up his mind to be a qualified husband and not repeat the mistakes of the past.
After marriage, Zou Wei began to learn to pay attention to and take care of his wife's subtle emotions, and also took the initiative to take on the housework at home, focusing on making his wife happy. Despite his busy schedule, he always finds time to spend with his family as much as possible.
When his wife's birthday comes, he always picks a gift and takes her to her favorite restaurant for dinner, so that she can deeply feel his heart and love. Every time she received such a gift, she was always moved to tears, she didn't expect her husband to care so much about herself.
A few years later, Zou Wei's career grew steadily, and he was promoted to supervisor within the company. At the same time, he and his wife also welcomed a lovely daughter. Every time he comes home at night and sees his lovely daughter, he feels that his life has become complete.
He is very grateful to God for giving him a second chance to have a happy family again.
Life is unsatisfactory in ten times, but Zou Wei did not choose to give up, but chose to learn and experience true love. He is sincerely grateful to his new wife, who has brought him a lot of positive energy and made him have the strength to pursue happiness again.
Zou Wei and Yan Ni's married life is like a dusty path, on which they left footprints and bits and pieces of the past. Today, these are the memories of their passing.
The once youthful years gradually passed, the bits and pieces of marriage hit them, and life was full of ups and downs. whether the once sweet vows are still in each other's hearts; Whether the pain of divorce has calmed down now; It doesn't matter anymore, because time dilutes everything.
By persevering through the great waves of life, they cherish the happy life they have now. They understand that past experiences are precious treasures, and they are grateful for the love they once had, and they are grateful that it ended in a free form.
No matter what twists and turns they go through, they will eventually become a beautiful scenery in life, and each other is still full of sincere blessings and retains the original innocence.