In many families, we may have encountered such a scene: as long as the mother is at home, the child seems to have changed as a person, becoming naughty, disobedient, and even crying often. This often leaves many mothers feeling confused and helpless. Why does the child behave so badly in front of his mother? The reasons behind this are actually worth pondering.
First of all, the child has a special emotional dependence on the mother. From the moment a child is born, mom is the closest person to them. Children's emotional needs for their mothers are very strong, and they crave their mother's attention and love. However, as children grow, they begin to have their own consciousness and ideas, but they still want their mom to meet their needs. When moms can't meet their expectations, children may try to get mom's attention by being mischievous.
Second, children tend to have higher expectations of their mothers. In the child's heart, mom is a symbol of perfection. They want their mothers to be able to meet all their needs, and they also want their mothers to give them more support and encouragement. When the mother's performance does not meet the child's expectations, the child may feel disappointed and dissatisfied, thus showing unbehaving behavior.
In addition, the child's behavior can also be a temptation for the mother. As children grow up, they gradually form their own consciousness and ideas. They hope to understand their mother's bottom line and attitude through temptation, so that they can get along with their mother better. During this process, the child may exhibit some misbehaving to observe the mother's reaction.
However, behind these unbehaving behaviors, there is actually a deep dependence and trust between children and their mothers. They hope that mothers can understand their inner needs and give them more love and support. As mothers, we should be more patient with our children's voices and understand the real emotions behind their actions.
At the same time, we should also learn to meet our children's needs appropriately and give them more support and encouragement. When children exhibit misbehaving, we can try to communicate with them, understand their thoughts and needs, and help them solve their problems. This will not only enhance the parent-child relationship, but also promote the healthy growth of the child.
In short, there are many complex reasons behind the child's misbehaving in front of his mother. As mothers, we should have a deeper understanding of our children's inner world and give them more love and support. Only in this way can we truly become the most solid backing for children's growth.
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