The recent hit "Fireworks Family" once again pushed the "original family" and "Chinese-style mother-daughter relationship" to hot topics.
Through his mature words and delicate emotions, the author of the original ** "She and Her Islands" vividly portrays the family, responsibility and respect in the Chinese-style mother-daughter relationship, and also shows the anxiety and confusion that may exist in the process of exploring the inner world in the process of women's growth, and finally breaks through the encirclement.
In this **, the story of three generations of women in Qiao Haiyun's family allows us to see that different female characters insist on themselves and pursue freedom at different stages and in the face of different challenges. Among them, what impressed me the most was Meng Mingwei and Li Yijin, the mother and daughter, a microcosm of a Chinese-style mother-daughter relationship.
Li Yijin is a girl who has been controlled by her mother since she was a child, a girl who has no secrets of her own at all in front of her mother, and is submissive in front of her mother, but the opening chapter shows the reader who chooses to escape from her mother's control, Li Yijin bravely pursues the freedom she wants, challenges the "controlling maternal love" and "traditional family concepts", insists on her own choices, and finally realizes her dreams.
Li Yijin's growth process is not only the pursuit of self, but also the awakening of women, resolutely striving for women's status and rights.
Every woman is an island, but this book tells us that different women can form an archipelago, and they collide, warm, symbiosis with each other, and insist on being themselves.
An archipelago-style mother-daughter relationship