Hot Authors I'm 57 years old, I'm 29 years old, my son, my girlfriend is celebrating the New Year, but my husband is going to divorce me.
Seeing that the Chinese New Year is coming, and there is a lot of artillery fire outside, Wu Lin's heart is also heavy.
Just now, for the sake of her children, she and her husband Li Rusong quarreled again.
Li Rusong told Wu Lin that if he couldn't accept his children, the two would divorce.
These words scared Wu Lin a lot, Li Rusong has always been very good to her, and now she actually helped a stranger say such a thing, it was really hurtful, after all, they had lived together for most of their lives.
Wu Lin is not an unreasonable person, but how could Li Rusong not know that this is related to his future?
I'm 57-year-old Wu Lin. Just two years ago, the three of us had a good relationship.
My husband and I are both proud of our son. He is our only son and our pride.
Our children are very smart from an early age. Unlike other boys, he never gets into trouble.
Not only is he a good character, but he also makes us proud of his academic achievements. He studied hard and eventually got a doctorate.
We told him that our family was rich and let him do what he loved.
He finally got what he wanted, and his child was successfully employed in college. Everything looks so good.
Like many parents, we are worried that our children will get married. However, her son told her that she would find her.
I had no clue about my son's marriage and was anxious.
Sometimes when I talk to my husband, I always feel that I am too strict with my child's education, so that his EQ development is not good, and I don't know how to fall in love?
My husband often comforted me, saying that it was fate and that there was no need to worry.
As much as we were worried, our children were still out of town, and we couldn't help them.
When he returned to his child's hometown, he brought some local things, and he originally planned to talk to the above and let them pay attention to the child's marriage, but he stopped him.
He said: Mom and Dad, don't worry, I will definitely find a well-behaved and obedient daughter-in-law. 」
He speaks so confidently that we have to obey. During the Spring Festival, I asked him if he had a girlfriend as usual, but unexpectedly, he actually said that he had a girlfriend.
We are all happy because our child is finally getting better. I told him to handle this relationship carefully, wait for the Spring Festival next year to take her home, and if conditions allow, I will give you another marriage.
Well. During the Spring Festival of the following year, he did take his girlfriend home, but since then, the family has not been peaceful.
I must admit that it's all my fault. My son said I had found a boyfriend and I was so excited that I didn't even ask him what kind of person he was.
I always felt that my child had to be like him, with the same appearance and educational background.
However, my husband and wife are happy to welcome our children back to their hometown for the Chinese New Year with them.
Her name is Chaumont, and she is mediocre and very ordinary. I really can't tolerate her being a match for my son.
Xiaomeng showed a good communicative ability when she spoke, her eyes were very spiritual, and she easily caught my eye. I simply asked her, "Which department are you from?"She didn't shy away from telling me about her experience.
Later, I found out that she was a graduate of a technical school and worked for the outsourcing company where my son worked. They met at work and then began to fall in love. Her family is not very rich, and she has an older brother who is still studying. After some conversation, I came to the conclusion that my child must have been deceived by Xiaomeng, so there was a period of confusion.
Later, I learned that Xiaomeng had been in a long, long relationship before, but in the end they separated for some reason. I found out that Xiaomeng is not a simple girl, she has much more feelings than my children.
Watching Xiaomeng call her children around, I feel very uncomfortable. Xiaomeng's eloquence is very good, but I noticed that she rarely works and often talks about her children, saying that she is a guest, not a guest. But she's just a passer-by after all, and this may be her first time, and it may be her last.
When I think about it, I feel so much better. Even though I heard her scolding fiercely, why should I bother so much with a stranger?
One morning, before Xiaomeng got up, he came, and he said to our couple, "Is it okay for Xiaomeng to be your daughter-in-law?"I said solemnly, "Not appropriate." ”
When his children asked me why, I said without thinking, "She's not worthy of you." ”
He was surprised to hear me say that. He said he never imagined that his mother would have such thoughts.
He said that Xiaomeng is not a college diploma, nor is she a big beauty, but it makes him feel very warm. She helped him fill in the missing areas and taught him how to communicate with his superiors so that he could be promoted faster.
I listened to Xiaomeng's words, and I couldn't believe her even more. She is so young, but she has seen the world so thoroughly, how can I compare to my naïve child? If the two of them were together, I was afraid that the child would be bullied.
Thinking about it this way, I was even more adamant in disagreeing with the two of them being together. My son was very worried when he heard this, and said that I had no right to interfere in his love. Okay, I won't bother you, but if you want to marry her, I'll jump! I was also dizzy.
Originally, I wanted to scare my son like this, who has been very filial to his parents since he was a child. But he didn't expect that he would scold me, this is not a child I raised since I was a child, it must have been influenced by Xiaomeng.
The childish anger disappeared, and he ran out directly to wake up Xiaomeng, and then left in a hurry, leaving without even saying hello.
A year later, the relationship between the two finally came to an end. My husband said I was easily agitated, but I felt like my kids were cheated. Originally, I thought that my children would understand my bottom line and change their minds, but I waited for a year without even news.
I think if I agreed, he would have changed his mind. However, I don't know when my husband has fallen to my children.
It made me even angrier. He did not hesitate to sacrifice his future to satisfy his children and isolate me. My husband couldn't persuade me, so he used the most cruel means.
He said that if I insisted on not agreeing, he would divorce me and spend the holidays with my children.
It's almost the Spring Festival, what can I do? Will she just leave it at that, just like her husband and don't care about anything? I also understand that my child has his own decisions and that I have no right to meddle.
However, emotionally speaking, I still can't accept it. I think that if I work harder, maybe my son will recognize the facts, separate from Xiaomeng, and then find a suitable man and live a happy life.
Wu Lin felt very uncomfortable, the child she had worked so hard to cultivate was robbed by a woman who was poorer than herself. This made it difficult for her to put her mind at ease, after all, in their eyes, their children were the best, and even fairies were not worthy. However, marriage is a matter for the children themselves, and cannot be judged by outsiders.
Parents only provide some opinions and opinions, and the final decision is in the hands of the children. They must respect their child's choice, no matter how unwilling they may be.
What Wu Lin was most afraid of was her previous attitude towards Xiaomeng, which made her have a bad impression of her future relationship. In fact, Xiaomeng is not necessarily so stingy.