These 3 characteristics need parents to pay attention to!
Have you ever been around you who studied well in elementary school and started to decline in middle school? When she attended the parent-teacher conference, she repeatedly told parents not to focus on their students' academics, because in her opinion, the scores of primary school are easy to deceive, and 90% of the top students are pseudo-top students.
A colleague of mine, Sister Li's daughter, is in the second grade this year, and her academic performance is getting worse and worse, from the top ten in the first grade, to the middle of the stream. Sister Li wondered why her son, when he was in elementary school, was excellent in Chinese, mathematics, and English, and he usually scored more than 340 points, why did his score plummet in middle school?
Wenwen's father once asked one of Sister Li's teachers about her students and told her that she had been in school for six years, but she had learned less than five percent of their entire school. Therefore, she also reminded that in primary school, parents' attention should not be on academics, but on developing good study habits, otherwise a pseudo-genius will appear, but still smug.
When you are in elementary school, parents must check your children to see if their children have "fake school bully", and if so, then correct them quickly.
Get a high score by doing the questions.
In elementary school, the learning content is very little and easy, and you can get a good score by doing problems; But when these children enter middle school or high school, their true nature is revealed as they acquire more and more knowledge and become more difficult.
The reason why this situation occurs is because when those pseudo-geniuses encounter new problems, their first thoughts are whether they have encountered such problems before, and whether they can modify them. But in junior high school and high school, the content of the test is increasing, the difficulty of the test is getting more and more, the difficulty of the test is getting higher and the score of the test is getting lower and lower.
True geniuses, when learning a knowledge point, are not only for memorization, but more importantly, they will understand the logic behind these concepts and theorems.
Therefore, when parents accompany their babies to do their homework, they should pay attention to cultivating their babies to summarize and summarize the knowledge they have learned, and be able to draw inferences from one another, not blindly rote memorization.
Unwilling or won't consider.
In communication with the teacher, she also said that only 5% of the students in this class were the first to think of the problem. Most children who fail to answer a question for three seconds will think about whether to go to a teacher or find an answer. This kind of child seems to be diligent, but in fact he is lazy, and the result is that laziness turns into stupidity.
Wenwen's father once heard that for the same thing, it takes ten minutes for two children to each do, and it takes about nine minutes for the smarter ones to draw the answer, and it takes one minute and one second to finish. And those pseudo-geniuses, if they can't think of an answer in two minutes, then go straight to it.
Therefore, when parents accompany their babies to do homework, they must pay attention to cultivating the baby's thinking ability, rather than blindly stuffing things into the baby. Because all the knowledge is found out by themselves, it is necessary for students to learn by themselves in order to get good grades.
If you can find that you will have these three characteristics when you are in elementary school, middle school, and high school, you can compare them.
Good study habits.
Reading is a complete process, including previewing, listening to lectures, reviewing, writing homework, and taking exams.
Wenwen's father has seen a genius student who is extremely accurate in his studies, such as:
Preview: Many students do not do well in class, mainly because the pre-class preview is not done well, in fact, the preview does not take much time, 15 minutes of a class is enough, a cursory look at what you have learned the next day, figure out what you want to learn, find out your doubts, and then take these questions to class, in this way, there will be better results.
Listening: 45 minutes of class, there will be prepared questions, listen carefully to the teacher's explanation, and do a good job of answering.
Study and do homework: This is the biggest difference between a real genius and a pseudo-genius, a real genius, before doing homework, will read it in advance, after all, the content of primary school is relatively easy, and some students with high IQs can finish it without studying at all. However, this teaching method becomes more and more difficult when you are in junior high school, and if you don't do your homework and only do your homework, there is a high chance that something will go wrong.
Many children are careless and use the wrong situation, in fact, because they have not formed a good habit of solving the problem and will not mark out the keywords when reading the problem.
For example, in a math quiz, there is a multiplication problem, the question is: 30 peaches, Xiao Ming and 5 classmates divide equally, how much can each of them get?
As someone who had never done math before, she quickly made a simple calculation on paper: 30 5 = 6, and when she asked why it was wrong, she told her that Xiao Ming was gone, and he could only see 5.
Therefore, the habit of reading questions carefully is a very critical part of children's learning, and unfortunately, many children do not recognize and ignore it.
Read books every day.
Many teachers have said that parents should be there for their children, especially until third grade. Liu Yuanyuan, a top student at Peking University, once posted a Weibo on the Internet, saying that her life has not changed because of this exam, but because after reading some books, she has a clearer understanding of some issues. Maybe reading so many books doesn't help her in her studies, but the books she reads always make her have more ideas and cheer her up.
According to her, children who see more will be more confident, smarter, and more potential. This kind of person, when he enters middle school, is definitely a proper top student.
If they do not form the habit of reading, then their brains will be very deficient and unable to reason, so their comprehension will be relatively poor. Therefore, in order to train children to become true geniuses, it is very important to read books consistently.
Love sports and never say never.
Physical exercise is one of the main activities for children, which can exercise their physique, make them taller and make them smarter. Studies have shown that children's IQ comes from the brain, and the development of the brain depends on nutrition, so through exercise, the further development of the brain can be promoted.
In addition, sports can also cultivate a person's will, and when he encounters difficulties, he can bravely overcome them, but if he is a pseudo-genius, he will retreat, in this case, how can he do well in the exam? Therefore, parents should teach them from early childhood to never say never.
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