Zhu Kaishan seems to be a man endowed with divinity, and there seems to be nothing he doesn't know.
When it comes to the technique of pinching people's hearts, he is very sensitive in his heart and thinks very comprehensively; His life history is mysterious, like a mysterious messenger from heaven, containing endless mysteries. When confronted with enemies, he is adept at suffering in silence and taking action after planning; He was born with extraordinary abilities and practiced kung fu all over his body. Although he shows only a small part of the iceberg many times in the play, his performance is truly astounding.
Not only can he fight the squires and bullies, but he can also defeat runners and ruffians.
In addition, he was the leader of the "Boxer Rebellion", which shows that his leadership skills were quite good; In the fields, he no longer wields weapons, but lightly grows all kinds of flowers. The most critical point is that he put down the ** in his hand, and even if he cultivates the land, he can grow lifelike "flowers."
It is said that both civil and military people felt unfair to him.
Although the dragon had nine sons, each one was unique. Therefore, Zhu Kaishan's three brothers are all "losers", and he himself is also a "loser". Zhu Kaishan has outstanding talent and character, but none of his three sons can inherit Lao Zhu's legacy. Strictly speaking, among Zhu Kaishan's three sons, only one was chosen.
The boss Zhu Chuanwen inherited Zhu Kaishan's diligence and duty, and was able to bear hardships and stand hard work. He is a well-known good cadre in the village, and he has a characteristic of being decisive and resolute. However, he lacks flexibility in the face of problems, often speaks insincerely, is reluctant to speak up when offending others, and shows an attitude of ignorance and unawareness.
The second Zhu Chuanwu inherited Zhu Kaishan's courage and enterprising, he dared to fight and fight. He likes to charge forward at critical moments and dare to take responsibility. Despite this, he is often distracted, acts impulsively and easily angers, and often lets others deal with chaotic situations.
Zhu Chuanjie is the third, and he inherited Zhu Kaishan's humility and prudence, and he was friendly to others. He also has his own unique insights and methods when it comes to business. He is a master in the business field, but in the face of the fluctuations of the times, his decision-making lacks decisiveness and decisiveness.
However, it must be admitted that all three sons have shown themselves quite well in finding a daughter-in-law, and each of them has an excellent aesthetic eye. "I think I'm a good man, you can treat me like a man! Even the "perfect" marriage combination is nothing more than that.
01: Zhu Chuanjie and Xia Yushu, their combination is full of caution and decisiveness.
When Zhu Chuanjie was young, he followed Xia Yushu's father to learn how to do business.
Zhu Chuanjie was originally a highly spiritual individual, and was often able to deduce other situations from one example. He also always makes no mistakes in his work and takes his tasks very seriously. The most crucial point is that in that era, he was willing to learn and practice, silently imitating the actions and words of every "old man", and eventually applying them to his own life.
However, I believe that most viewers have a similar opinion about Zhu Chuanjie:
Why does a person who was lively and cheerful when he was a child look so vulgar when he grows up? If he didn't take into account the social environment at the time, he was only engaged in a business that he was familiar with, and he was never as good at interpersonal communication as he was when he was a child.
Many times, his expression was a little dull, and the confidence and aura in his eyes were no longer as strong as before.
If there is really an excuse for his change, then the sloppy handling of "Shopkeeper Xia" has become the only solution.
For Chuanjie, Shopkeeper Xia is not only a nobleman, but also his guide on the road of life. Chuan Jie was deeply inspired by the earnest teachings of the shopkeeper Xia, and he began to make a name for himself in the shopping mall. In Chuanjie's eyes, Shopkeeper Xia represents wisdom, alertness, stability and self-confidence, and Chuanjie has always regarded Shopkeeper Xia as his model, model, and even his faith.
However, the ultimate fate of Shopkeeper Xia is tragic, his business failure leads to the collapse of his family, and his undisciplined behavior "borrows smoke to dispel sorrows" eventually leads to his death.
Therefore, the "collapse" of Shopkeeper Xia became the "palace" in Chuanjie's heart, and was finally completely destroyed.
Xia Yushu is a woman who lives in a traditional society, but her thinking is very modern. In this era, she doesn't struggle for life like some people, she lives more for herself, and she likes to live a simpler life. In the face of many things, she is not the kind of person who hesitates and hesitates, but the kind of attitude that is outspoken and decisive in dealing with it.
However, Xia Yushu also has its obvious shortcomings, he lacks a close connection with reality when thinking about problems, and often only talks about ideals in an empty way, ignoring the actual situation. He was always attracted to beautiful visions, but rarely thought about the potential risks. It is no exaggeration to say that Xia Yushu seems to think too simply, always tending to look things in a better direction and ignore the possible adverse consequences.
Chuanjie and Xia Yushu, these two people with very prominent strengths and weaknesses, when they are combined, they show amazing harmony.
For Chuanjie, Yushu's decisiveness and courage made him, an overly cautious person, learn to make decisive decisions; For Chuanjie, Yushu's wisdom and tolerance are his greatest treasures. Xia Yushu, when facing Chuanjie and what happened, he also had a strong desire to read.
02: The combination of Chuanwu and Xian'er is a perfect combination of impulsiveness and calmness.
Zhu Chuanwu is undoubtedly one of Zhu Kaishan's favorite sons.
Although Zhu Chuanwu's first impression is that he is very manly and impulsive, his behavior of doing things without thinking about the consequences really makes everyone feel a headache.
Fortunately, Zhu Chuanwu eventually became a soldier, and his courage and fighting spirit became his strength, and at the same time, the orders and prohibitions of the soldiers also greatly limited Chuanwu's impulses and impulses.
It is for this reason that Chuanwu, the thorn head, finally unexpectedly became Zhu Chuanwu's proudest child.
Although Chuanwu's "original match" is named Xiu'er, this is an indisputable fact. In the eyes of the audience, Xian'er has become one of his image characteristics. Despite this, the audience understands that in the depths of Chuanwu's heart, he always only loves Xian'er.
Xian'er is an extreme person, and some people think she is very pitiful because she is too selfless and harms herself.
Some people think that her behavior is too "contrived", always hesitant, and values both logic and facts, and it can be said that she has always performed very well on the path of pursuing "selflessness".
Chuanwu is actually a downright unreasonable and reasonable person, and once his temper becomes hot, even the cow can't control it. He is very conscientious, but he has no rules, and he likes to impose what he thinks of on others to do. No matter what others think of what he wants to do, even if it may cause trouble, he will not hesitate to ignore it.
In addition, Xian'er is able to maintain a calm mind in the face of various problems and challenges, and even in difficult situations, she may choose to sacrifice herself for the sake of others.
This forms two completely different extremes with Zhu Chuanwu.
Although these two people did not come together until the end, it must be admitted that if they did have a chance to get married, it was undoubtedly a perfect union as fate would have it.
In this way, neither of them will be overly selfish or unreserved, and they will be able to think more about others without subjecting themselves to unfair treatment because of it.
03: That article and biography combine limitations and inclusivity, ambiguity and transparency.
Although Zhu Chuanwen's cultural level is not very high, his temper is quite hot.
In the days when he was farming as a "young owner", his greatest pleasure every day was to train helpers, and there was no distinction between severity and severity when he spoke, sometimes what he said was not only a helper, but even Zhu Kaishan didn't want to listen.
Zhu Chuanwen's temper was never controlled when confronted by the helpers and later the kitchen staff, and he always spoke with displeasure on his face.
He has always considered himself an indispensable pillar of his family and the breadwinner of his family. He gradually neglected the people around him, and thought highly of himself, unquestionable. It is no exaggeration to say that he thinks highly of himself.
If you really want to criticize Zhu Chuanwen for having no merits, it is indeed inaccurate. In the process of cultivating the land, he is undoubtedly the most dedicated, and he is also the most capable person to help his father Zhu Kaishan.
When he ran the restaurant, he was a master chef, not afraid of hardship, not afraid of fatigue, and devoted himself to the research of new dishes, which made the restaurant business extremely prosperous. His craft spread throughout the town, and there was an endless stream of customers. Therefore, it is not an exaggeration to call him a hero of the Zhu family.
However, every day he thinks about his identity as the "head of the family" and how he can present himself as the "boss", "eldest brother" or "eldest son" at any time and place, which makes it difficult to generate good feelings and is therefore often disrespected by others.
It is no exaggeration to say that Chuanwen is indeed a master in family life, but he does lack skills in dealing with people.
Although the article was different from usual, and her mother-in-law often reprimanded her, she did not get angry, but made her laugh out loud; Chuan Wen was concentrating on his studies in the living room every night, while Nawen sat silently on the sidelines, patiently guiding him in his studies. Due to his low level of literacy, that article accompanied him every day to practice calligraphy and reading; Nawen knew that although Chuanwen was strong on the outside, he was fragile on the inside. The text often felt heartache for a lack of respect, but that article would have comforted his fragile heart at the right time.
In the duel with the Han Laohai family, Na Wen used his unique mahjong skills to perform a wonderful counterattack for the members of the Zhu family.
In the end, due to Chuanwen's timidity and weakness, he accepted the advice of the RB people and became a "traitor to the Zhu family", which is also the reason why Chuanwen insisted on his position, and even did not hesitate to "destroy his relatives with righteousness", prompting Zhu Chuanwen to change his evil and return to righteousness.
Of course, Nawen also had some mistakes, such as she once encouraged Zhu Chuanwen to "split up".
At this critical moment, Zhu Chuanwen's honest and conscientious character began to show its value. He knew that this time the separation was much better than discussing it with his husband at the beginning, because he understood that after the separation, he and his wife were both a family, and no one wanted to divide too much. After a slight punishment for that article, the article finally let go of the thought in his heart and stopped mentioning the separation.
It is no exaggeration to say that the marriage relationship between Nawen and Zhu Chuanwen is very close to the people. Although Nawen did not know anything about housework at home and outside because of his background in the royal palace, Chuanwen performed quite well in all aspects.
Although Zhu Chuanwen is narrow-minded, he often seems a little confused. In the little things, that article was able to tolerate his small flaws; And on big things, that article can also stand firm, correct mistakes, and lead him back to the right path.
The couple can be described as representatives of "perfection".
Zhu Kaishan often said that he does not have a clear method for educating his children, but things are often not satisfactory, and it is impossible for everything to meet people's expectations.
In this world, there is no such thing as a perfect person, because everyone has their own shortcomings, but a truly "good" marriage and a "perfect" marriage are real. Marriage can only be established by mutual complementation, and this complement is based on mutual respect, mutual understanding and trust. A truly great partner means that they can complement each other's shortcomings and turn those deficiencies into their strengths.
Zhu Kaishan has three sons, and although it may not be ideal for each son to be raised individually, the judgment of these three sons in choosing a daughter-in-law is quite good.
Therefore, in the process of finding a partner, we should follow the basic principle of "three views are the same, and the personality is complementary" to make a choice.
Only in this way can they be called a real "fairy couple" and achieve a perfect marital state.