When she went home during the Spring Festival, she was violently beaten by her husband, and the woman wanted to return thousands of miles
There are two reasons for the rarity of long-distance married women in ancient times: the inconvenience of transportation and the limitations of matchmaking. However, with the improvement of women's status and the convenience of transportation, the number of long-distance married women has gradually increased in modern times.
Although marrying far away has the disadvantages of long distances and the inability of the mother's family to help in time, there are still many women who choose to marry far away. Feng is one of them, she chose to marry far away in her relationship with her boyfriend in Yunnan, but on January 15, 2023, she wanted to return to her parents' home thousands of kilometers away for the New Year with scars, which aroused people's curiosity and attention.
Feng, a native of Jilin, 26 years old, came to Zhejiang to work four years ago. In a factory dominated by women, she met Du, a man from Yunnan, and the two had a good conversation, and then fell in love and got married.
Feng planned to marry far away from Yunnan, but despite her family's opposition, she insisted on her decision. After marriage, Du became willful and domineering because of excessive doting. Feng needs to ask him for instructions no matter what he does, otherwise he will be punished.
One day, Feng's brother told Feng that his father was sick and hospitalized, and Feng transferred 2,000 yuan of the "New Year's money" that Du transferred to her to his brother. When Du found out, he was furious, not only beat Feng, but also incited his in-laws to scold Feng.
Feng was chilled by this, planned to go home for the New Year, and said that if he didn't come back, he also hoped to keep the child. The in-laws hoped that Feng would take the child away. The villagers saw the matter and notified the village committee, and the staff intervened in the investigation.
This incident sparked a heated discussion among netizens.
On social **, netizens expressed their anger and condemnation of Du's cruel behavior. Netizens expressed their sympathy for Feng and dissatisfaction with Du. Some netizens believe that Feng's filial piety to his father is not wrong and should not be subjected to such violent treatment.
While other netizens believe that Feng should divorce as soon as possible to avoid suffering such pain again. In short, Du's behavior has attracted widespread attention and discussion among netizens.
Lao Hu's point of view is that honoring one's parents is a matter of course. As far as this incident is concerned, Feng's behavior is not wrong, but Du's behavior of beating Feng is unacceptable.
Lao Hu believes that although people often say persuasion and not persuasion, from Feng's description, Du and his parents have personality problems. Therefore, Feng should leave the family.
What do you think?