A lot of troubles, a lot of pain, a lot of entanglements, is because certain things and certain people are too important, and certain points of view are enshrined as the truth of life, the standard that cannot be changed. Then your experience will be mired in unnecessary suffering.
Don't take yourself too seriously, take yourself too seriously, and don't think too much of others and take others too seriously. These are all illusory definitions of the concepts of thought, they are all temporary, they are all changeable at any time, none of them are eternal and fixed.
There really weren't many people who really cared about you when you were alive. After you die, after two or three years, there may not be anyone who really remembers you.
Aside from being sick, almost most of the pain you feel is brought to you by your perceptions and your values. The so-called values are the definition of your ideological interpretation. Since it is an explanation of thought, it does not really exist, but only exists in an illusory definition of concept.
If you want to put it more concretely, then all the feelings you feel when you are sick are also the feelings that your mind interprets. He is not real, just like the feeling you experienced when you were sick in your dream last night, and it does not leave any crystals.
For most people. What do you really care about? It's your money, it's your health, and your peace of mind. If you stand on a more fundamental level, what you need to care about is, have you survived or not? Have you ever understood the true immortal self? Do you understand the truth? After understanding the truth, do you do it incorrectly, it doesn't matter, I don't care?
When you understand the truth, you will be able to do the greatest possible not to care, whether it is true or not, it doesn't matter; can do the greatest not care, not really, it doesn't matter; You will be able to keep your heart at peace, and when you will be at peace inside, the voices outside will be silent. Silence does not mean that there is no sound, but that you can be indifferent to any sound, and if you are not in the end, it is equivalent to no sound.
Your best encounter is to meet the real yourself on the big screen, and your best noble person is the real yourself - the big screen.