In contemporary society, the phenomenon of "* fun" has spread in universities and has become an increasingly serious social problem. Parents are often ignorant of this phenomenon and are left in a fog of what their children are going through. This paper will analyze the phenomenon of "happiness" from three aspects: the impact of family education, the changes in the social environment and the excessive academic pressure, and put forward effective countermeasures, in order to help parents and society better understand and solve this problem.
1.Parental doting leads to a lack of autonomy and responsibility in children. Some parents spoil their children excessively, resulting in their children lacking independent thinking and problem-solving skills, and finding it difficult to stand on their own feet. Parents often do everything for their children, and children are used to being cared for, unable to stand on their own, and easy to indulge in "** fun".
2.Parents have low expectations for their children. Some parents only expect their children to graduate and find employment, and lack of planning and guidance for their children's future development paths, which can easily lead to a lack of motivation and direction for their children's academic and career development, thus falling into the phenomenon of "happiness".
In view of the influence of family education, parents should pay attention to cultivating children's ability to solve problems independently, so that they can consciously take responsibility and establish a correct outlook on life and values. In addition, parents should also have in-depth communication with their children to understand their inner world and growth needs, and give timely care and guidance.
1.The pace of social life is accelerating. With the continuous development of society, people's lives have become busier, college students face various social activities and academic pressure, and it is easy to seek simple entertainment and relaxation after exhaustion, and fall into the quagmire of "** fun".
2.Society's expectations of college students are constantly changing. Today's society has higher expectations for college students, requiring them to excel academically and in the workplace. Under the pressure of such high expectations, some college students feel anxious and confused, and choose negative entertainment methods in order to escape reality, resulting in the phenomenon of "** fun" is more common.
In order to cope with the changes in the social environment, universities should enrich the cultural life of the campus, carry out diversified activities, guide students to establish correct entertainment and learning attitudes, and cultivate students' comprehensive quality. At the same time, the society should give more understanding and support to college students, create a more relaxed employment environment, relieve the pressure of college students, and make them healthier in the process of growth.
1.College courses are heavy and difficult. With the continuous updating of social knowledge, the difficulty of university courses is gradually increasing, and students need to invest more time and energy in learning. Some students choose to escape from reality and indulge in meaningless entertainment due to the intense academic pressure.
2.Employment pressures have intensified. In recent years, the job market has been highly competitive, and many college students are worried about their future and are under pressure to find a good job. This kind of psychological pressure will cause some students to have a sense of avoidance and indulge in "** fun" and cannot extricate themselves.
To cope with the challenge of excessive academic pressure, schools and parents should work together to help students establish a correct sense of learning and the ability to cope with pressure. Schools can strengthen mental health education, provide students with more emotional support and problem-solving methods, and guide them to face challenges correctly and not be knocked down by difficulties.
In short, the spread of the phenomenon of "* happiness" has had a serious impact on the growth of college students, and families, schools and society need to work together to resolve this problem. Parents should guide their children to establish a correct outlook on life, schools should pay attention to students' mental health, and society should create a better development environment for college students. Only comprehensive management can escort the healthy growth of college students.