After learning that they had the Three Jewels, they were always worried about affecting the two Great Treasures, fearing that they would feel that having the Three Jewels was not enough to love the two of them. My father and I mainly did the following:
1.Cut off gossip. Some grandparents around joke about it, so that the child will not hear that your mother will not love you if she has Xiaobao. For the grandparents who love to watch the excitement and love to coax, we inform them in advance to let them know that we have our own insistence, and they generally do not joke in front of their children after they know.
2. Demonstration role. As the authority of the family, the father treats the days of pregnancy gently and considerately, and the child will also see it in his eyes and keep it in mind, take care of the pregnant mother like his father, and attach importance to the little treasure in the mother's womb, and is full of good expectations for his future younger brothers and sisters.
3. Stimulate children's sense of honor. Mom has a little treasure in her belly, and the two of you will be the happiest brothers and sisters. One day in the future, you will have a cute brother or sister. She will adore you and call you brother and sister sweetly.
4. Empowering. When your younger siblings are born, you will become your younger siblings' little teachers. The older brother taught arithmetic, blocks, and roller skating, and the older sister taught phonics, drawing, and dancing. Think that you can teach a cute little treasure and exercise the power of a teacher. It's a blessing to have a younger sibling. After the two Xiaobao are empowered, they will also study hard, strive to master the knowledge they have learned, and accumulate knowledge and ability to teach their younger siblings.
5. Meet their normal material and living requirements. After having Xiaobao, he faced the normal material and life requirements of the two big treasures, such as buying toys, buying snacks, watching movies, going to amusement parks, and so on. Do your best to be satisfied, and let them know that they are still Mom and Dad's favorite. As long as it is a reasonable request, we will give priority to them and give them a full sense of security.
All in all, love is the highest requirement for balancing two or more babies. Children will see with their eyes, they will experience with their hearts, they will love them, they will feel it, and they will learn to love their brothers and sisters.