In the face of many women in modern society who are unmarried and have a pet cat or dog as a companion, I maintain a neutral attitude. Because it is your choice to marry or not to marry, and it is also your decision to have children or not to have children. If a girl has the ability to live her own life, she doesn't care whether she is married or not. But having a child needs to be treated carefully.
If you have a child, you have a child because you love the man who will accompany you for a lifetime, and you are willing to have a child with this man, which is the crystallization of love. Because of the love of mom and dad, two people will support each other, be considerate of each other, and raise children together, and love will shelter children for life. This child was born because of the love between the two, and he will be happy.
If you want to have a child, you should pay attention to the continuation of life. Regardless of whether you are married or not, as long as you have the need and ability to raise your children, plus your own love for your children. Giving birth to a child is a respect for life, and the father or mother will pour a lifetime of energy and effort into the child's growth process, regardless of whether it is a single parent or not, the child is the continuation of his own life, and has his own complete life, and the child will be happy.
If you have a child, you should plan well before planning for a child, because having a child does not require a certificate, but it takes a lifetime of energy and love to reach the end. Every child is an independent individual, they are different from objects, they have their own mind and soul, their own uniqueness and ideals. In the journey of raising children, difficulties and dangers, joy and happiness coexist, and as a parent, without a certain concentration, this trip will make people crazy.
Now the non-mainstream is spread to be safe without marriage and childlessness, but it is not terrible to be married and have children, after all, there is a loved one to accompany you, and you can participate in the growth process of having one or two playful babies.