Life is incomplete, and cognition is incomplete.
Only by living to old age can you see through some things.
In this world, who is the closest?
Most people think that it is the parents.
Your parents are relatives, but they only accompanied you for the first half of the journey, and for the rest of your life, your parents became stars in the sky.
What are you most afraid of when you are old, what are you most afraid of being lonely.
Everyone wants to rely on the elderly, who do they rely on, are they children?
In today's world, many young people are reluctant to live with the elderly, but it cannot be defined as unfilial piety, they feel that the concept of life is different.
Some old people insist on eating and living with their children, but their children dislike them and dare not say anything.
In my opinion, the greatest wisdom of the old man is to have itSelf-knowledge
Children are relatives, they are the people who the elderly love all their lives, and children also feel that their parents are the dearest, but they still have a long way to go and want to live the life they like.
An old man is always accustomed to living in memories, communicating with his children, always getting used to playing the same old tune, he is full of emotion, and his children are tireless.
"Dad, you've talked about this 10,000 times," ......
Interested old people, choose to be silent.
Some old people are stubborn, the more you don't let me speak, the more I speak, just like Tang Seng reciting a mantra to Sun Wukong.
As a result, the children are scared to go home.
I was very lonely in my later years, but fortunately I had a wife.
When I was young, I thought about divorce, but I still didn't dare to divorce, and when I was old, I was glad that I didn't get divorced.
Some people dislike you and leave quietly, without even saying hello.
When people are old, what is the value, everyone avoids you.
There is only one person who nagged you every day, disliked you, and disliked you all your life, but never left, and this person is my wife.
Wife, wife, old picture companion.
Shen Congwen said that marriage is like a siege, people in the city want to go out, and people outside the city want to come in.
Don't look at the swear when you get married, saying that you love you until you are old, but after a long marriage, people's hearts will itch.
I often think: That's it for a lifetime? It's too boring.
But congratulations on not having the courage to betray your marriage, in exchange for a wife who does not retaliate against you.
There is a sentence in "Six Tales of Floating Life".Someone will share the dusk with you, and someone will ask you about the porridge.
When you are old, you can have your wife with you, cook porridge for you, wash your feet, beat your back, and make tea for you, what a happy old age it is!
The husband and wife are very close, and even from a certain point of view, they really transcend the blood relationship, because they have been with each other for the longest time, and the distance is also the closest, close to the closest, close to a bed.
Unfortunately, there is always someone who has to go first.
Since Mr. Yang Zhongshu left, she fell into deep sorrow, she became melancholy, and the rest of her life was lonely.
Mr. Yang Jiang wrote in his memoirs——He (Qian Zhongshu) said that from now on, there will be no life and separation, only death.
Writer Sanmao loved Jose deeply, but Jose died early, Sanmao felt hopeless about life, and later she chose to use a pair of ** to understand this life.
Sanmao once wrote——If the heart has no place to live, it will be like wandering.
A few years ago, there was a relative, her wife left first, since then, she has become depressed and unhappy, who went to visit her, she didn't say a word, and within a few years, she also left.
If there is heaven, who do people want to seek in heaven before they die? That person is the closest person.
Are you a parent? Are they children? Or a lover?
When you are old, you understand that the closest people are not necessarily parents, not necessarily lovers, not necessarily children.
The closest person is the person who hurts the most in your heart, and the person who has lived a lifetime, is the best for you, and never abandons you.
Finish.