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Text: 360-degree psychology understands love and understands you better.
Hello Teacher!
I've been thinking a lot lately, and I've had trouble falling asleep at the thought of what happened to him, and I hesitated to tell my story, because the authorities are obsessed with bystanders.
Let's start in April 2016, when I was 18 years old, I met him in the neighborhood of QQ, chatted with him for a few days, he made an appointment to meet, I ignored him, and I accidentally learned that my classmates also knew him, and everyone was not far away, and then a few of us made an appointment to meet. Later, he confessed to me, maybe it was because I had just arrived in a strange city to work, broke up with my first boyfriend and was in a state of lovelorn and lonely, so I was together in a daze.
We were together for almost two years before I broke up with him, in fact, now that I think about it, I think it was a shady and abnormal relationship between me and him, like a long-term relationship with friends, he took me to his place of work on the first date, and since then every time he has something to do and has to go back to the company, he asked me to wait for him halfway.
I don't know much about him, I don't even know his real age for more than a year together, I don't even move in with him when he rents a house, but I often go to his place to sleep, I never see his ID card in his room, I have asked him his age a few times, he always pulls other questions and does not answer me directly, I am embarrassed when my colleague asks him how old he is, because I really don't know his age.
After a year and a half together, until one time I asked him how old you are, he actually replied to me like this: "You look like how old I am, how old am I", at that time I held my breath in my heart, a person secretly shed tears there and he fell asleep next to me, I couldn't help it, so I had a conflict with him I wanted to break up with him, he said that he was 13 years older than me, and I was afraid that I would break up with him if I knew his age.
He also deceived his marriage history, he actually already had a wife and children, and he had already separated from his wife before he met me, but he didn't have a divorce certificate, he said that the children were too young to divorce, and I believed it. At that time, I continued to be with him for half a year, but I often couldn't sleep and cried secretly at night, he still slept over there, and slowly accumulated more disappointment, I yelled at him at every turn, it was difficult to share a bed with him again, and he also said that I had a man outside so I refused to sleep with him.
After the breakup, he also looked for me a few times, I ignored him, and half a year later he came to me again, he said that he had a divorce certificate, and that would be popular on the Internet, "either give me money, give me love, or give me out". I sent him to either give me money or give me a roll, and he asked me if I was short of money, and I said yes. Then we added friends, and then he said that he would give me three or four thousand yuan a month to give me flowers, and he never did it, and he had been in contact with him for 3 months, and he transferred 520 every month, and gave two or three hundred pieces like that. As soon as he looked for me, I followed him, and he didn't give me much money when he was greedy, and it was not pleasant to have a relationship with him.
Sometimes he's still very good to me, I think it's a little bit different with him, I don't have anything to talk to him about with him now, I won't marry him in the future, but I don't know why I'm still entangled with him, and I'm not looking forward to any new love now.
My reply: I calculated your age, you are only 21 years old this year, but you have been entangled with this unclear man for more than two years. And how old the other party is, what background he has, you don't know at all, the relationship in the rental house is still known by people nearby, which is equivalent to a friend relationship.
Can young girls learn to distinguish between men a little bit and be a little more demanding of themselves, although I am very tolerant of extramarital affairs and the like, but I am still a little angry to see you in a relationship that does not care about yourself at all, has no nutrition, and does not even know why you have a relationship.
Whether it is our family education or school education, we should really put some effort into gender education, instead of simply and rudely giving a sentence, no early love, no cheating, etc.
Instead, tell the girl,Having a relationship with a person, at least with some feelings,When you meet someone, you have to know at least more details in order to have then. There is also the question of whether there is money or not, it is completely because you have read a few sentences on the Internet, what kind of criterion do you take it, can you have a little bit of your own judgment and vision? Just such a man has wasted more than two years, and you still say that the sexual experience is not good, I doubt that you will not be able to experience beautiful sex when you meet other men in the future.
And a man who doesn't know basic information and can't give you any nutrition is so unclear and unclear that he wasted two years, and the time of young people is really a waste. Youth is not a beautiful season, it is a season of waste, and then when you are in your thirties, you are still unhappy in your marriage, and you have no choice to live or die there. Be sober, be more capable, increase your ability to see people, don't be easily abducted by such a man for two years.
Delete this man completely and start living again, you are still so young.
About author:360-degree view of psychology, psychological supervisor, counselor, psychology lecturer, gender relationship research scholar, emotional writer, deeply engaged in the field of psychology for more than 20 years, focusing on the improvement of women's wisdom, gender cognitive cultivation and intimate relationship building, to improve the modern men and women's sense of belief and cooperation in love and marriage for the concept, based on improving the quality of marriage between Chinese men and women, is committed to making China's marriage and family relations more stable, so that the modern society between the sexes can be healthier and long-term development.