In life, you will meet many people and many passers-by.
Some people have helped you and encouraged you when you were in trouble;
No matter who it is, as long as it hurts others and doesn't know it, it is a kind of unkindness.
Some injuries and failures are inevitable. Because kindness is a choice. When a person is kind, he takes care of others; When a person is not kind, he hurts others.
In fact, everyone has their own ideas and ways of doing things. But even if the other person does something incorrect, we have to be vigilant. Otherwise, the other party is likely to do something to us that hurts us.
Don't respect your privacy.
Privacy is a person's inner world, and it is also the most difficult thing for a person to protect. Especially in real life, everyone has their own secrets and does not want to be known by others. We must respect each other's privacy.
But when we interact with others, some people will deliberately ask us some privacy questions, and then casually inquire about our privacy, and even attack us with some very mean and disrespectful words, which makes us feel very uncomfortable.
This kind of person is also a very unkind person. If you meet such a person, be sure to stay away from him as soon as possible, because such a person is usually not trustworthy and respectful. If you tell someone about your privacy, then you have a lot to lose.
So in life, if someone doesn't respect your privacy, stay away from him as soon as possible.
Don't value your feelings.
Everyone has their own personality and lifestyle, and we can't ask others to be like us.
Some people just don't understand you, think you're making trouble, and don't care about your feelings;
Even though he is nice to you, what he does always makes you feel like he is deliberately bullying you.
So when a person doesn't respect your feelings, then stop associating.
Sometimes, if others don't respect our feelings, we also learn to respect our own feelings.
Even if one person loves you, don't hold the other person to your own standards. Everyone should have their own way of life and pace of life.
Even those closest to them should respect each other. After all, this is a relationship between two people, not an attitude of one towards the other.
Don't use your own standards to demand from the other person, which will only make the other person feel tired and difficult to get along with.
It's rude to you.
In this society, each of us should be polite to everyone. We should respect each other. When you meet someone, if he is not polite to you, then you should not talk to him.
In life, there are many such people:
In a family gathering, always criticize one's parents or relatives in front of others;
In the workplace, always pointing fingers at other people's work;
There is also no politeness to those who are not very familiar with it. Although he can easily be considered an impolite person.
A person who does not know how to be polite, even if he has a good background and knowledge, can be annoying. So when you meet such people, try to avoid talking to them. This can make you feel uncomfortable and embarrassed.
Maybe you feel a little wronged by not speaking up, but if you don't say it, these grievances will accumulate in your heart, which will lead you to lose patience in the end. This behavior is very stupid and ignorant.
Don't care about your life.
Caring is a worthy act.
A person who cares about your life is someone who is willing to give you time and energy.
When a person is not willing to devote time and energy to you, it is likely that he does not love you. Because the people who love you will try their best to care about your life and find ways to give you the best.
Only people who don't love you will be indifferent to you. Even if he gives time and energy to you, it's not necessarily that he loves you.
Someone who loves you will put their time and energy into you. Even if he is busy himself, he will find time to accompany you and send you warmth.
So if a person doesn't care about your life, you have to cut ties with them.