01 Unresponsive and unable to speak.
In fact, we must know that the way we get along with others is different.
Because of personality or values, everyone has different characteristics.
And it is precisely because of the different characteristics that we should all have different ways of getting along with others.
We will find that there are always all kinds of people around us, who have different personalities and different values.
Some people are innocent by nature, they don't want to hurt others when they do anything, they want to get as much as possible from others.
But there are some people who like to take advantage, and people who have a good temper or people who are easy to talk to are always deceived by them.
So sometimes we don't have to be too kind, we have to learn some way to arm ourselves.
The way to make ourselves look less like a bully is to keep making ourselves more serious.
The reason why we seem to be bullies is also because we are unresponsive and can't speak.
We don't know how to refuse others, and we do what others ask for unreasonably.
Over time, they get used to it, and they push all the things they don't like to do on us.
02 has a cowardly personality and likes to please others.
There is also a type of person who seems to be easier to bully because they have a weak personality.
We can usually find people with bad tempers or short tempers, and others don't dare to provoke them.
That's because they don't seem to be able to talk.
So many times others like to bully that kind of cowardly person, because they don't have the ability to fight back.
Don't blindly please others, you should have your own opinions.
Do things more according to your own way of thinking, and don't always revolve around others.
And let's not try to make friends with others in the same way that they do.
Because if you make friends with others in a flattering way, the final result will definitely not be ideal.
If we try to please others, we will become more and more inferior.
We become passive in the relationship.
We can only make friends with others.
However, being friends with others is inherently equal, and mutual respect should be used to form long-lasting friendships.
In this society, each of us needs to be on guard and not always be too simple.
Because sometimes it may be because of our own simplicity that may cause some bad results.
We must learn to think for ourselves and have the ability to think independently.
Don't let others think that we are easy to bully, we have to learn to protect ourselves.
03 I don't understand the world.
In fact, many times we will find that some people do not understand the sophistication of human feelings.
We will find that people who don't understand the world will be hated by others many times.
There are different ways of interacting with each other, and not everyone is suitable for one way.
For example, when interacting with direct people, you don't have to beat around the bush.
Because they don't like this roundabout way of getting along, it will most likely lead to them being reluctant to make friends with us.
But when making friends with more sensitive people, we must pay attention to the psychological feelings of the other person.
Many times, because our words can cause the other person to be hurt.
We are born with all kinds of connections with all kinds of people, so we always need to deal with different relationships.
As we get older, we will find that we become more and more comfortable with this relationship.
When we want to say a word, we try not to say it.
It's actually good for any of us to talk less, because talking too much can lead to some unnecessary trouble.
We need to slowly learn these incomprehensible human feelings, which will make our lives easier and easier.
04 Bad mentality.
In fact, we will find that those around us who are often bullied always have a bad mentality.
Why can't you keep your mind in a steady state?
It is precisely because they know this weakness of yours that others are always bullying you through this crack.
Making one's mind better is not necessarily for the sake of others, but many times it is good for us.
Because when getting along with people, everyone likes to be with people who are more emotionally stable, can anyone like someone who is so impenetrable every day?
And if we have a bad attitude every day and let ourselves be in a state of sadness and sadness for too long, it will also hurt our body.
So it's important for everyone to have a good mindset.
We still have a long way to go in this society, and we need to slowly train ourselves to become stronger.
We meet all kinds of people, and not everyone is going to be nice to us.
So we need to become stronger ourselves, so that we can withstand all kinds of damage.