Many wives who choose to divorce because of their husband's cheating may regret it after the divorce.
But wives don't necessarily take the initiative to redeem it, but hope that the cheating man will regret it more.
I regret it so much that I want to come to my original wife, ask for forgiveness, and ask for reunion.
So after the divorce, the husband and wife are actually still engaged in a competition.
Even if they all regret it and want to remarry, they are also competing to see who regrets it more.
For example, some time ago, Scarlett handled an extramarital affair case, which was a similar situation.
The original partner and the cheating man divorced for less than a month, and the original partner regretted it a little.
The reason is very simple, that is, the cheating man did not blatantly be with the mistress after the divorce.
The wife felt that the cheating man might not love the mistress so much.
was caught cheating before, and the explanation made by his wife was just impulsive to Xiao San, so it may be true.
And there is a husband and wife relationship between the wife and the cheating man for more than ten years.
The two are college alumni, and campus love has entered marriage, and they used to be true love.
After getting married, the cheating man developed very well, and the original partner was worse off taking care of the family because of having children.
The cheating man provides a good financial environment for her and her children.
At the time of divorce, the custody of the child is on the side of the original spouse, the property is divided equally, and the cheating man will give 3,000 alimony.
But compared to when the marriage continues, almost all the wages of the cheating man are handed over.
After the original allocation of this month's expenses, some of them felt that they were unable to do it.
The money she earns plus what the cheating man gives just enough to maintain the balance, and even spends some savings.
She felt a little unbearable, and began to regret the direct divorce.
The cheating man has come to see the child twice a month, and the cheating man's parents have come more often.
Because it is the reason for the man's cheating, the parents of the cheating man have the meaning of compensating the child and the original partner.
Every time I came, I bought a lot of things, and I had to give money, the original partner got along well with the parents of the cheating man, and the two old men had retired, and she did not accept the money given by the parents of the cheating man.
After the cheating man came, the two got along more awkwardly.
didn't talk about the mistress, so I asked about the children, but compared to the situation before the divorce, the quarrel for the mistress has become very good.
This is actually the reason why the original has some regrets about the divorce, because I feel that I can still get along well with the cheating man.
The original wife told Scarlett that she wanted to remarry a little, but she didn't want to take the initiative.
She asked Scarlett if the cheating man would regret the divorce and how to let the cheating man take the initiative.
First of all, let's analyze, will the cheating man also regret the divorce?
There is a high probability that cheating men will too, as can be seen from the fact that cheating men come twice a month for their children.
If many cheating men are really obsessed with the little three ghosts, or if they resent their wives because of their divorce, the cheating men will definitely not go to see their children just after the divorce, and may even snub their wives and children for a long time.
And the parents of the cheating man, their attitude represents the attitude of the cheating man to a certain extent.
If a cheating man has a grudge against his wife and children, his parents will definitely know about it, and there will be some problems with his performance.
The parents of the cheating man only want to compensate the original partner and the child, and obviously intend to persuade his wife to remarry in the future.
In fact, after the cheating man and the original partner divorced because of an extramarital affair, who would regret it more.
It mainly depends on who is more uncomfortable after the divorce and who behaves more freely.
The wife will regret the divorce because after the divorce, life is not so satisfactory.
She felt that her previous marriage was more comfortable, both financially and emotionally.
If the cheating man feels similarly, or even deeper, then the cheating man will regret it even more.
MiserableIn response to how to make a cheating man take the initiative to ask for remarriage.
Scarlett suggested that the original wife should be alienated from the cheating man but would not refuse.
The cheating man and his parents come to see the child, and the wife does not refuse to pay for the original partner and the child.
But the wife must not take the initiative to talk about remarriage, or play the emotional card.
You have to make the cheating man feel that he has the hope of forgiveness if he works hard.
But the point is that this cheating man needs to work hard to change his wife's attitude little by little.
There is another important point, the premise of all this is that the cheating man has broken off with the mistress.
If the cheating man continues with the mistress, then no matter what the cheating man does, it will be in vain.
Whether the wife wants to remarry, or test the attitude of the cheating man, the premise is to understand clearly first, whether the cheating man and the mistress are broken, in fact, there is no need to deliberately understand.
As long as the cheating man is broken, the parents of the cheating man want the two to remarry, and they must tell the original wife as soon as possible.
So if you don't say it, you don't break it, and the wife doesn't need to think about regretting it and remarrying at all.
In the end, Scarlett wants to say that most men will regret it if they really get divorced because of cheating.
But the emotion of regret is not for him to see his mistakes and recognize his mistakes.
And in order to undo the mistake and take the initiative to repair the relationship, it really doesn't have to be.
A lot of men are conceited, and they may want their wives to take the initiative.
Even if the wives really regret it and want to remarry, they must be calm.
Easy forgiveness must be exchanged for another betrayal.
This applies both before and after the divorce.
The cheating man must recognize the mistake and bear the price before the wife can consider forgiveness.
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I'm Yin Sijia, your exclusive emotional mentor, sharing emotional cases and helping you answer your questions.