The period group drama "South to North" has come to an end, and Yao Yuling's ending is embarrassing.
Yao Yuling was not only so depressed that she wanted to set up a stall to sell barbecue for a living, but when she was disgraced, she met Niu Dali, who was pursuing her hard, and she was bright and charming, and she also brought her young little girlfriend, in contrast, Yao Yuling was really miserable.
is also because of Yao Yuling's ending, "South to North", which originally had a good reputation, was directly scolded by netizens on the hot search.
Regarding Yao Yuling's ending, the audience has a lot of controversy, and there are mainly two points of view.
One is that he feels that Yao Yuling's ending does not conform to the character's personality.
Forget about writing the tragic ending of Yao Yuling in the early scenery, why use her admirer Niu Dali to set it off? The comparison between Yao Yuling and Dali, such a plot makes people uncomfortable and feels very unappetizing.
Many netizens have accused the screenwriter of ugliness of women from the perspective of male gaze, creating a hint that this kind of woman who loves vanity will not end well.
In the era of material scarcity, Yao Yuling would rather exchange food stamps for cloth stamps, and make new clothes to wear when she is hungry, which shows that she loves beauty to the core.
With her beauty-loving personality, no matter when and where, she will try her best to clean herself up beautifully and cleanly. In the words of netizens: Even if she sells barbecue, she should also be a "barbecue Shih".
Moreover, Yao Yuling has always been very sober, knows what she wants, what kind of life she wants to live, and will not be surprised by people's opinions.
Therefore, after Jia Jinlong is arrested, even if her life will plummet, with her intelligence, personality, and beauty, she will find another high branch to live a good life.
No matter how bad it is, she can go back to Niu Dali, after all, she is Niu Dali's white moonlight in her life, as long as she turns back, Niu Dali will most likely accept her.
Another point of view is that Yao Yuling's ending is normal, and even she is lucky.
First of all, the background of the times is destined to make it difficult for Yao Yuling to return to the former scenery, a husband with a criminal record, and it is a felony, drug trafficking, intentional murder of police, it is a combination of crimes, and the impact on Yao Yuling in the future is to split her head and cover her face.
In that era, someone in the family committed a crime and was imprisoned, and the whole family was affected for several generations, and Jia Jinlong's arrest, Yao Yuling would only be isolated, and no one would be willing to help her.
Secondly, she also has a child, prejudice and contempt from outsiders, plus she has no other specialties except for broadcasting, I'm afraid it's not even easy to find a job, and it will be very difficult to pull the eldest child.
Yao Yuling loved beauty when she was young, she was a person who fed the whole family and was not hungry, and she had children to raise, no matter how much she loved beauty, she was in no mood, and a woman who was busy making a living and raising children would no longer have spare time to be beautiful.
Moreover, Jia Jinlong's accident must have hit her hard. In a difficult environment, it is easy to be blinded and coerced by her own emotions, and these will consume her original value system and concept.
Therefore, Jia Jinlong was sentenced for a crime, and Yao Yuling was able to raise the child smoothly and make a living, which was already good in that era.
From the "A Flower in the Railway Compound" in the early stage, to the confident and bright rich wife in the later stage, and finally to the barbecue aunt with a face full of vicissitudes, Yao Yuling's ending is undoubtedly tragic.
But this is also all an appearance, in fact, Yao Yuling's ending implies a lot of human beauty.
is also because of this before and after comparison, the character of Yao Yuling can be more three-dimensional, real, and more universal.
She no longer pursues beautiful clothes and delicate makeup, and allows the years to leave traces of polishing on her, which is actually the mark of her struggle against life and fate.
It is respectable and admirable that she supported herself and raised her children by herself without making a living through improper and dishonorable means.
She did not only care about her own pursuit of happiness, she abandoned innocent children, and raised her children sensibly and considerately, which is enough to prove her greatness as a mother.
She finally picked up the fairy rod on the ground, turned her back to Dali, and spun it with a calm step and a smile, she wanted to tell Dali, but also to herself, that she had already come to an end.
It is said that character determines fate, but it is only one of the determining factors, life and environment can change a person.
Yao Yuling's ending is a bit lonely at a rough glance, and it is also a little difficult for her and Niu Dali, but for her, everything is a light boat that has crossed the Ten Thousand Mountains.
Some people are beaten by sudden changes, while others stubbornly reinvent themselves. There is no doubt that Yao Yuling is the latter, she is no longer just dressed in a beautiful label, and life has labeled her as a strong person again.
She is no longer so glamorous and dazzling on the outside, but she is strong enough on the inside, she has long won over herself, and she has won the ups and downs that fate has brought her.
In the early days, she enthusiastically pursued the life she wanted, not being defined and bound by the world, and later, she took the bitter fruits of her original choice, went through many ups and downs, was independent, self-reliant, and still sober.
This is another embodiment of Yao Yuling's beauty, the beauty of ordinary women!