In the pluralistic tide of society, sibling love is no longer a rare thing, but has gradually become another romantic annotation of love.
Love is not limited by age, but there is always an imperceptible gap between the ideal romance and the triviality of reality.
A lady in Jiangsu used her own experience to depict this love story that spans ages. She, born in 85, and he, her lover, was born in 90.
When the two decided to walk hand in hand through the road of life, she was beautiful and moving, and he was in his prime. But today, thirteen years later, she lamented that she had stepped into the threshold of time, and he still maintained that youthful handsomeness.
The hourglass of time is different for everyone. Women always seem to be at a disadvantage in this race against time.
While women's facial bones begin to show signs of aging after the age of 35, men often do not face a real change in appearance until they are 40 or even 50 years old. What's more, women are more likely to feel the ruthlessness of the years under the dual pressure of childbirth and family.
This lady was once the center of attention, and her beauty and temperament won her many suitors. But she chose this man who was five years younger than her, not for anything else, but for that sincere love.
Although the outside world is full of doubts about this sister-brother relationship, she firmly chooses to spend the rest of her life with him.
However, when she entered the age of thirty-five, she began to feel the traces of time on her body. Although she has tried various methods to fight aging, the changes that are deep in the bone marrow are difficult to reverse.
She watched her face age, while he still maintained that youthful handsomeness, and this contrast made her feel uneasy and inferior.
She began experimenting with everything from basic skincare to expensive anti-wrinkle products, but none of them could hide the signs of age. As a mother of two, she was increasingly anxious about the changes in her appearance.
At the same time, her husband does not seem to have been eroded by the years, and still retains that youth and vitality. This stark contrast made her feel more and more uneasy. The face she once was proud of was now a burden on her heart.
This experience has touched many people. Some people say that the giving and gaining in marriage are often not proportional, and women tend to bear more. Some people also lamented that the test of this sister-brother relationship has just begun, because men are in the ** period of their lives, while women are beginning to face a downhill road.
However, love is a journey with no absolute answers. Every marriage has its own unique ups and downs. Although the sibling love in film and television dramas is always full of romance and sweetness, in reality, it needs to face more pressure and tests.
The age gap, personality matching, and the fit of the three views are all challenges that this relationship needs to face.
Although age and appearance should not define a person's value, if the heart is not strong enough, then sibling love may bring more inferiority complex and pressure. When facing the challenges of aging and change, we need to have enough courage and self-confidence to meet every stage of the future.
In short, sibling love is like a journey full of uncertainties, both sweet and bitter. Whether we choose or not needs to be deliberate. At all times, women should learn to love themselves and cherish themselves at every stage.
Because true happiness does not come from external evaluation, but from inner satisfaction and peace.