In June 2019, in a dilapidated brick house in Neijiang, Sichuan, an old lady described as withered and skinny was lying on her bed and dying.
Mrs. Liu is 76 years old, but she was diagnosed with AIDS, and all kinds of gossip hit her for a while, and the good people speculated behind her back how she contracted AIDS, saying that she was messing with the relationship between men and women, and everyone avoided her.
The most painful thing for the old lady was the torture caused by the illness, and she could only lie in bed all day long, unable to speak, let alone take care of herself.
The little daughter who takes care of her next to her is in tears all day long, she still has her own small family to take care of, she is too busy to take care of, her mother has a total of 6 children, and now she is the only one left here.
Not only that, but the other brothers and sisters also prepared their mother's coffin early and put it in the next room, isn't this just cursing their mother to death?
The villagers accused these children of being too ruthless, no matter what, this is the mother who gave birth to them and raised them, how can they just ignore it?
The other siblings were indignant at this, saying that it was all their youngest daughter's fault"In order to make money, she asked my mother to remarry more than a dozen times, otherwise she wouldn't get sick! ”
How did Mrs. Liu get AIDS? Is it true or false that other children say that they will remarry? How to solve the problem of old lady's support?
The youngest daughter's name is Lu Shuping, in her impression, her mother Mrs. Liu has always been a healthy and independent woman, who is a good hand at farm work, carrying a hoe and walking on the ridge of the field.
I don't know when Mrs. Liu slowly became sluggish, and her resistance decreased a lot, and there were no major illnesses or minor illnesses, but the old lady didn't take it seriously, she just thought that she was getting older, and it was normal to get sick.
The children were very anxious, but the old lady was afraid that it would cost too much money and refused to go to the hospital, so she casually found some herbs and used earthworks to treat them and dragged them over.
Until she couldn't drag it out any longer, Mrs. Liu was sent to the hospital, and the results of the examination made everyone gasp:HIV-positive, in other words, Mrs. Liu has AIDS!
The big guys are no strangers to the name of this disease, after suffering from AIDS, the body's resistance will decline rapidly, all kinds of diseases will come to the door, and many infections will occur, and eventually die due to general failure.
What's even more terrifying is that so far, there is no drug in the world that can be effective**AIDS, only some support**.
AIDS has always been a negative image in people's minds, and for no other reason, there is one very striking channel of AIDS transmission:It can be transmitted through sexual contact.
In addition, in many cases reported in the society, most of the patients suffering from AIDS are sex workers, or people with extremely complicated relationships between men and women, so people's first reaction to AIDS patients is that this person is inappropriate and messes with the relationship between men and women.
The same is true for Mrs. Liu's family, although it may also be transmitted through blood, but the big guy still regards this family as a plague god, and when he sees them, he takes a detour, and all kinds of conjectures and rumors about Mrs. Liu are also spreading.
Mrs. Liu gave birth to 6 children, 4 sons and 2 daughters, and after learning that her mother was suffering from AIDS, the whole family hurriedly went for a check-up, and the good news was that no one was found to be inherited for the time being.
After the diagnosis, the old lady's health became more and more bad, and she was getting older, and she couldn't leave people around her at all, until not long ago, the old lady accidentally fell, and since then she can only be sick in bed, unable to take care of herself, and can only drink some thin food when she eats.
The old lady has 6 children, and it stands to reason that she should be happier in her later years, but what she didn't expect was that only the youngest daughter stayed by her side, and the other children had already started a family, so she was left in her hometown and ignored.
It's not completely ignored, the children prepared a coffin, and put it next door, not even painted, and put it there brand new, as if to curse her to die early.
In this regard, the old lady who was speechless could only cry silently, and the angry little daughter found a lawyer for her mother, and brought a large family, including her, to court, accusing the other children of failing to fulfill their maintenance obligations.
The youngest daughter pointed to the noses of her brothers and sisters and scolded: "Even if my mother has AIDS, she raised you, and you are left alone, and your conscience is eaten by dogs!" ”
Unexpectedly, the brothers ridiculed each other: "How did the old lady get AIDS, don't you know?" You brought it all on yourself! ”
Faced with the accusation of her sister Lu Shuping, the brothers and sisters only felt that it was a backlash: "The old lady will suffer from AIDS, and she will find it all by herself!" ”
It turned out that Mrs. Liu was still a well-known figure in the village, but she was not a good name, just because Mrs. Liu remarried 14 times!
Although the six children she gave birth to grew up together, they were all half-siblings!
The four sons were born to Mrs. Liu and her first husband, and after the relationship between the two broke down, Mrs. Liu divorced and married her second husband and gave birth to two daughters.
Since then, Mrs. Liu has lived in peace, serving her in-laws, running the house, and occasionally going to see her sons, until Mrs. Liu was 57 years old, her second husband died, and her two daughters also started a family one after another, and the old lady has been living with her youngest daughter Lu Shuping.
Things have developed quite normally so far, and Mrs. Liu has not remarried many times, it is a normal relationship between men and women, but it didn't take long for all this to change.
After living with her youngest daughter for a while, Mrs. Liu suddenly remarried and found an old man for a twilight love.
This family affair has been widely spread in the local area for a while, after all, it is a rare thing for an old lady to marry three times, and everyone will chat a few words after dinner.
The other children except the youngest daughter were also shocked, but they also understood when they thought about it, and the elderly were also lonely, and it was understandable to find a partner to live with.
But it didn't take long for news to come again, Mrs. Liu was divorced! After a while, good guy, Mrs. Liu has remarried again!
kept getting married and divorced like this, and Mrs. Liu actually remarried more than 10 times!
During this period, the children were not without persuasion, after all, such frequent remarriages either had a brain disease or a ghost in their hearts, and they also ruined the reputation of the family and were scolded by people poking their backbones.
Wouldn't it be good for them to tell their mothers to stop tossing and live a good life in their old age? What are you tossing around?
Mrs. Liu is very stubborn, no matter how others persuade her, she still remarries again and again.
At first, the big guy didn't know why, and he was laughing at Mrs. Liu behind her back for playing with her age, messing around with the relationship between men and women, until her ex-husband Uncle Li stood up and complained, and then he realized that something was wrong.
Not long after Mrs. Liu's third husband got married, he found that the family's money and some valuable objects were always missing inexplicably.
Most of the elderly feel that the money is not safe in the bank, and it is not convenient to withdraw it, so they will put some cash at home to withdraw, and the third husband is no exception, always put some cash at home.
After marrying Mrs. Liu, her youngest daughter and son-in-law often came to visit, and every time Mrs. Liu left, she would stuff a bunch of things for them to take back.
At first, it felt normal, but slowly, Old Man Li found that not only were the valuable things in the house gone, but also the money he had put at home was gone!
But it's hard for him to say, after all, Mrs. Liu is the daughter-in-law who has passed through the door, it is appropriate to use some money, and it is normal to take some good things to her daughter and son-in-law, but she can't stand it too many times, and by the time Old Man Li reacts, he has been almost squeezed.
Not only him, but several other husbands have also suffered the same thing, Mrs. Liu's youngest daughter and little son-in-law are like ghosts, eager to come every day, every time they come, they even eat and take, and they have to ask the old lady for money, and if they don't have money, they ask the old man.
Mrs. Liu remarried 14 times, and survived two terms in the middle, and each time she remarried, she would receive a bride price of several thousand yuan, and this money is estimated to have gone into the pocket of her youngest daughter Lu Shuping, isn't this just selling her mother to make money!
All the benefits were taken up by the youngest daughter, and she still had to cry poverty with her brothers and sisters, saying that her mother was weak and sick, and she spent tens of thousands of dollars on hospitalization and injections, so that her brothers and sisters could support and support.
Lu Shuping's approach made her brothers and sisters angry, and several people from rural areas were not wealthy, plus they had to support their families, which was very stressful, but they still remembered their mother's nurturing grace, and went back to visit and take care of them from time to time, and often gave money to their sister Lu Shuping to tell her to take good care of her mother.
can look at the dress of the brothers and sisters, the brothers and sisters are all dressed plainly, the eldest brother's coat cuffs are worn out, and the elder sister has to hold the child everywhere, the figure is bloated, and the face is tanned, and it looks like she has been devastated by life.
Look at the youngest daughter Lu Shuping, with fashionable curly hair, **fair-skinned, stepping on a pair of fish-mouthed high heels and walking with a clattering sound, it is clear who is doing better at a glance.
Maybe the youngest daughter has better family conditions, but combined with the remarriage mentioned earlier, I am afraid that the origin of the little daughter's money will be a question mark.
Now it seems that several of them have fed the dogs with kindness, and their sister Lu Shuping sold her mother and lay at home to count the money, but several of them have been deceived so far, but the mother also let her sister mess around, remarried more than 10 times and cheated the bride price money everywhere.
Now he is suffering from AIDS, which makes the other five children feel cold and distressed.
And it's not that I haven't come to take care of it, but the youngest daughter Lu Shuping has a resolute attitude and doesn't let other children come to visit, and her sister was beaten when she went, and the beaten ** still remains.
Over time, the other children were reluctant to go, so the younger daughter could only take care of it herself, but she didn't expect the other party to beat her up and find someone to sue them all in court, which completely annoyed the brothers and sisters.
Lu Shuping insisted that it was the other children who disliked their mother's AIDS and were unwilling to support her, and her brothers and sisters accused her of seeing that her mother was no longer useful, so they turned their heads and found them.
The family that should love each other is hysterical, like enemies who have been grudges for many years.
In order to seek justice, the angry little daughter found**proceed**, and after discussion, the six children returned to their hometown and gathered around their mother's Mrs. Liu.
At this time, Mrs. Liu was already out of breath and out of breath, and several children stepped forward to shout, and Mrs. Liu seemed to hear it, but she was so weak that she couldn't respond.
Seeing the healthy little old lady in their memory become unrecognizable, several children couldn't help but feel distressed, and tears slowly filled their eyes.
The little daughter standing on the side began to complain about how hard it was to take care of her mother every day, to take feces and urine, and to turn over and wipe her face, and between the lines was resentment towards her brothers and sisters.
I have to wipe and urine every day, how can I move alone! ”
So the peace that lasted less than a minute was broken, and in front of the mother, the six children fought to be red-faced and ugly.
In the eyes of the four elder brothers, the mother left home after the second marriage, and they have been living with their father, since the mother did not raise them young, they are not obliged to provide for their mother, and even if they give a little alimony every year, even if they are benevolent and righteous, the support should be given to the sisters.
The elder sister thinks that when her father died, she did it, and her sister never paid for it, so now it should be her sister's turn to support her mother.
Lu Shuping was naturally unwilling: "You just dislike the old lady AIDS!" ”
The brothers were not to be outdone: "You called her to remarry and cheat money, who is to blame if she gets sick?" ”
It's going to rain, and my mother is going to get married, what's the matter with me? Lu Shuping scolded, but the brothers didn't want to talk to her anymore, so they left in an electric tricycle.
In the end, my sister compromised and decided to take care of each of her sister for a month, taking turns, and Lu Shuping asked her brothers to give alimony every month, but she was rejected again.
Since the quarrel began, the six children have not looked at their mother on the hospital bed.
There are many cases of elderly people suffering from AIDS, and Granny Gong, who lives in Chongqing, has also been diagnosed with AIDS.
Granny Gong is over 80 years old, her body is still quite strong, her daughter works in other provinces all the year round, and she is the only one who lives after the death of her wife.
In November 2021, Granny Gong accidentally fell and injured herself and was sent to a local hospital for **, where she did some routine examinations during the consultation, but when the results came out, Granny Gong's eyes were dark.
Granny Gong felt that the sky had fallen: "It says that I have AIDS, I am 84 years old, and my wife has left early, how can I get AIDS?" ”
After hearing this bad news, her daughter who was working in the field hurried back, she was also shocked, but she quickly calmed down, she knew her mother's personality, and it was impossible to mess with any relationship between men and women at such an age, it may be a blood transfusion or a blood-borne infection during the previous dental visit.
The daughter put her mother's body first, spent thousands of dollars to buy medicine for her mother after consultation, and burned all the sheets and clothes that her mother had touched at home, and the family did a comprehensive sanitization.
Despite the comfort of her daughter, the old man's heart was still panicked, in her cognition, having this disease proves that she has a problem, she can't say what she is suffering, she is extremely depressed, and even wants to commit suicide: "I have discredited future generations." ”
When the neighbors learned about it, they also avoided her, not because of her person, but because they were afraid of being infected by AIDS, which made the already sad Granny Gong even more painful.
At this moment, the results of Granny Gong's follow-up examination came out, and she did not suffer from AIDS at all!
While the family was happy, they were very dissatisfied with the hospital that issued the AIDS certificate at the beginning, they thought that the hospital had misdiagnosed the disease, which caused a lot of harm to Granny Gong, and demanded that the hospital apologize and compensate.
However, the hospital believes that the precautions on the certificate are specifically marked, and the results of the HIV confirmed test are checked a week later, which is not a misdiagnosis.
The two sides are deadlocked, and there is no result, and the only thing worth being happy about is that Granny Gong does not suffer from AIDS, and she can live out her old age with peace of mind.
It is understandable that there has always been a wave of panic in people's hearts when it comes to AIDS.
In daily life, everyone should be clean and self-loving, do not borrow more private personal items such as toothbrushes and razors, do not use blood transfusions or blood products by themselves, cut off all transmission routes, and do not give AIDS transmission a chance.
I hope that AIDS can be overcome as soon as possible, and that effective drugs for AIDS can appear as soon as possible, so that AIDS people will no longer suffer, but I hope that everyone can be healthy and AIDS can disappear as soon as possible.