In the treacherous sea area of state-owned enterprises, everyone is like a small boat, not only to sail away, but also to be vigilant against reefs and wind and waves. I am fortunate to have an uncle, who is not only the leader of a state-owned enterprise, but also a beacon on my career path. His words always help me find my way when I am confused.
I remember one time, my brother-in-law talked to me about those things in state-owned enterprises. He said, "Look at those people who are always smiling and talking sweetly, they may be behind your back, quietly setting a trap for you." When I heard this, I was shocked, isn't this the little Zhang in my office? He always complimented me on a good job, but I always felt that something was wrong.
My brother-in-law looked at me, his eyes were full of seriousness, and he said, "In a state-owned enterprise, you have to learn to look at people." Not everyone is as kind as they seem. Sometimes, the people who are the most talkative think completely different things from you. ”
I nodded, thinking to myself, the interpersonal relationship of this state-owned enterprise is really more exciting than the TV series. The uncle then said, "You have to have your own circle and find people who can carry things together." That way, even if someone wants to be bad for you, there are people who can help you. ”
I smiled and said, "Uncle, are you teaching me how to do tai chi in a state-owned enterprise?" The uncle also smiled and said, "Almost, you have to learn to find a balance between the various forces, so that you can stabilize your boat." ”
He also reminded me that communication is an art and that you have to learn how to deal with different people. Sometimes you have to be as gentle as water, and sometimes you have to be hard as a stone. But no matter what, you can't lose your principles.
I take these words to heart, and every time I meet Xiao Zhang in the office, I will smile in response to his compliments, but at the same time, I will also be careful to protect my position. I knew that in this complex workplace, I had to learn to be both honest and flexible.
My uncle's words are like a warm current, allowing me to sail steadily in the sea area of state-owned enterprises, even if I encounter wind and waves. I learned how to protect myself and build good relationships with others at the same time. This is not only a survival skill, but also a wisdom of life.