Time flies, time flies.
When youth fades away and gray hair quietly rises, we stand in the twilight of our lives, looking back at the road we came, and we can't help but feel a lot of emotion.
Some people say that old age is the season of harvest and the precipitation of wisdom; However, more people feel an unprecedented loneliness and helplessness at this moment.
Especially when we are faced with our loved ones, we can sometimes be afraid.
This is not because of indifference to family affection, but because in the presence of these three types of people, the tranquility and harmony of our old age may be broken.
The first group of people are those who are overly dependent.
They may have been the treasure of our palms, the hope of our hard work.
However, as the years passed, when they grew up, they did not fly on their own as we would like.
They are still dependent on our wings, constantly taking, but rarely giving.
In their eyes, it seems that we will always be the strong and invincible parents, they forget that we are also getting old, and we also need love and support.
In the face of such children, we are afraid of our own powerlessness, afraid of not being able to meet their demands, and even more afraid of seeing their disappointed eyes because of our aging.
The second group of people are those who are alienated and indifferent.
In a person's life, there are countless friends, but few can really go to the end.
Some people may have shared our hardships and joys. But as time went by, they faded out of our lives.
When we grow old and yearn for a warm companionship, we find that they are long gone.
Their alienation makes us feel lonely; Their indifference makes us feel cold.
In the face of such relatives and friends, we are afraid that our enthusiasm will be neglected, that our sincerity will be disappointed, and that they will just stand by and watch when they need help.
The third group of people are those who are selfish and selfish.
In our later life, we may meet some like-minded friends who have similar experiences and similar feelings as us.
However, not all companions bring joy and comfort.
There are people who only care about their own interests and only care about their feelings; They will choose to leave when we need support the most, and they will even fall into the trap when we are most vulnerable.
In the face of such companions, we are afraid that our trust will be betrayed, that our kindness will be taken advantage of, and that we will be ruthlessly abandoned by them in this journey that is supposed to be mutual support.
However, as much as we are afraid to face these people, life is always full of unforeseen challenges.
We can't choose to run away because we're afraid, and we can't choose to give up because we're afraid.
Instead, we should face these challenges with courage and learn to protect our hearts and minds from harm.
For children who are overly dependent, we need to learn to let go.
Let them face the ups and downs of life independently, and experience the ups and downs of life.
Only in this way can they truly grow into a responsible and responsible person.
And we should also learn to accept their love and help, so that they can understand that the love between parents and children is mutual.
For distant and indifferent relatives and friends, we need to learn to let go.
Life is like a journey, and everyone has their own destination and route.
We cannot force others to walk with us, nor can we resent others for their departure.
On the contrary, we should cherish those who are willing to accompany us and be grateful for the warmth and care they give us.
We need to learn to be vigilant against our selfish peers.
Maintain a calm heart in your dealings with others, neither too enthusiastic nor too indifferent.
When we find that someone only cares about their own interests, we should stay away from them in time to avoid being harmed.
At the same time, we must also learn to protect our own interests from infringement and bravely stand up for our rights and interests when necessary.
In our later years, may we all have a strong and soft heart, which can not only resist the wind and rain but also feel the sun;
May we all find the person who is willing to spend the rest of our lives hand in hand, supporting and caring for each other;
May we all look back at the last stage of our lives with the corners of our mouths raised and our hearts full of regrets.
Life in later years is not always calm, the years are quiet, it is also full of challenges and tests.
But as long as we face these challenges bravely and learn to adjust our mindset and behavior, then we can still reap happiness and satisfaction at this stage.