No matter how powerful the routine is, you have to bow your head in front of self-love
All the ways to handle the relationship are vulnerable in front of the beloved, and all the ways to handle the relationship are vulnerable in front of the beloved. You want to grasp each other so much, and you want to win each other's love, because you need to be like a child who has not grown up, and you must be loved by others. Only those who think of themselves as children are afraid of being abandoned. The world of adults is one of mutual choice, and no one abandons the other.
Love is based on mutual respect, you love me, I am very happy; You don't love me anymore, and I respect you. It's funny that you often don't get it when you crave someone's love so much, because no one will respect a humble and pleasing person. And when the affectionate power within you no longer desires him, he will be attracted to you instead, because everyone likes a strong and powerful person.
When you understand this truth, let go of the desire for him will be respected and liked, and the position of the relationship will be automatically adjusted. Many clients have improved their self-esteem and self-confidence after counseling, got rid of a low level of self-worth, found inner strength, and then sincerely sighed that any trick used to do so is vulnerable after learning to love themselves. Exactly.
So you want to pinch someone because you care about him, as long as you care too much about anyone, you can't really win anyone's respect and love. Therefore, loving yourself is a very important lesson for women.