We often say: ".Blessed people must have heavenly appearances! Jiren has his own natural appearance! Heaven has no relatives, and he is always with good people"The words of ancient and modern sages have already said that the root of whether a person has blessings in his life or not!
From the perspective of Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism, if you want to become a blessed person, you mustZunTao is virtuous, doing good deeds and accumulating virtue, and believing in cause and effectthe "righteous conscience" advocated by Confucianism; What the Buddha said: Believe in cause and effect: What the Tao said: Respect the Tao and honor!
For example, Zong Lao, the founder of Wahaha, is a blessed person. For so many years, Zong Lao has always insisted on being an enterprise "altruistic and patriotic", that is, benefiting employees and paying taxes for the country, so as to win the respect of the whole society. To make products "integrity first", do not engage in false marketing, only to benefit the society, employees, and the country to make products, so in the end it can win the hearts of the whole society! This is the "righteous conscience" advocated by Confucianism, and this is the example that many businesses in the times should learn.
Moreover, the elder of the sect is diligent and thrifty and easy-going, and treats employees as relatives, which is the manifestation of Houde. It really is".Virtuous
So how can ordinary people become a blessed person?
First: filial piety. First of all, you have to be a filial son or daughter. Filial piety comes first, if a person is very filial, then this person must be blessed. When a family has many filial sons and daughters, then the family will naturally be harmonious, which is what we often say: family and everything is prosperous. Second: Do good. Do good, speak well, and see good. To be good is to be good in behavior, to be able to do good deeds and accumulate virtues, and to help others for pleasure! Always have an altruistic heart and always practice altruistic deeds. Kindness means to speak kindly, to speak easily and politely, and not to be mean and arrogant. This is what we often say, "Trouble comes from the mouth". To see goodness is to see good things, to do it as you do, to be full of joy, to praise with joy, and you can do it next time.
Third: Correction. As the saying goes: If a person is not a sage, who can do no wrong! No one is perfect! Such as our own arrogance, waste, extravagance, selfishness, and other shortcomings. We will inevitably make mistakes along the way in life, but the key is whether we have the courage to face them and correct them. Changing things for the better is not only a quality, but also a kind of wisdom.
The first step to change your life is to face up to your mistakes. We must dare to face our own shortcomings and have the courage to self-reflect. In this process, we need to maintain a humble and honest attitude, not to shy away from problems, and not to shirk responsibility. Through self-reflection, we can clearly recognize our shortcomings and mistakes!
Fourth: Honoring the virtuous. Confucius said: If you are a threesome, you must have my teacher. Therefore, we need to respect virtuous people in life, work, and society, especially the sages of Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism in traditional culture, and learn their classic teachings, so that we can slowly and better progress. Not only do you learn by yourself, but you also encourage your children, relatives, and friends to learn. It is also necessary to inherit and carry forward the teachings of the sages, so that more people can benefit from them.
Therefore, if each of us works hard from the above four directions, even if we only do one of them, then the merits that a person can accumulate are incalculable.