My husband and I have been in love for two years and married, and he is the only child in the family. After I got married, I moved into my husband's parents' old house in the county town and lived with them.
My mother-in-law treated me like her own daughter, getting up at six o'clock in the morning to make breakfast, and making me ginger tea before going to bed at night.
My father-in-law even bought things for our newlywed Yan'er, and the most advanced clothes and shoes for the car and house were complete.
I should have lived happily, after all, my in-laws were treated like my peers in my circle of friends.
One by one, they envied me, saying that I was simply married to a golden nest. However, I felt sad for no reason, and I always felt that something was missing.
My husband's own business is booming, and he is busy working overtime all year round, so he rarely has time to spend with me. My daily life is to eat, drink and have fun with my mother-in-law and parents, and I don't look like a newlywed young man at all.
I confided in my husband about my dissatisfaction, hoping that he would find time to spend more time with me, but he always vaguely and perfunctory.
The accumulation of disappointments made me doubt the marriage, and I began to become depressed and depressed, lying in bed in a daze all day.
My mother-in-law's parents saw that something was wrong with me and talked to my husband, but he still didn't change the rhythm of his busy life.
In this way, the more I lived in my in-laws' house, the more aggrieved I became, but it was difficult for them to have a seizure because they took care of me.
I had to go to the hospital clinic secretly to buy some anti-anxiety medication to eat. Taking too much medicine is not good for my health, but I am really worried that I will not be able to hold back the disease.
Unexpectedly, one day my mother-in-law suddenly took out a large bottle of antidepressant medicine from my room, and she and her father-in-law were so anxious that they asked me why I wanted to take this medicine. I was really wronged for too long, so I immediately scolded their son, saying that my husband didn't care about me.
My mother-in-law and father-in-law were dumbfounded when they heard this, they didn't know that there had been a rift between me and my husband for a long time. The mother-in-law immediately cried and asked her husband what was going on, but the husband just said indifferently and said "she was like that" and hung up**.
I was even more sad to see my husband's attitude, so I dragged my suitcase back to my hometown that night. My mother-in-law's parents were in a hurry and drove to my house overnight to pick me up, sincerely apologized to me and promised to let my husband correct his mistakes.
After I went back, I was worried that my husband and in-laws would blame me for not knowing what to do. Who knew that the mother-in-law's parents actually went to her husband's company the next day to reason with him face to face.
I hid outside the door and eavesdropped, only to hear my mother-in-law sobbing and saying, "It's because we didn't teach you well, and you can't even discipline your own wife well."
As a husband, you must first take care of your family, this is the right way! ”
The father-in-law also interjected: "My son, if you continue to be so busy, your wife will run away sooner or later, and when the time comes, there will be no one to take care of our old couple in their old age, and you will regret it a lot!" ”
Unexpectedly, my husband immediately turned red and apologized to his mother-in-law's parents.
He promised that he would correct it when he went back, and that he would value me and care for me. I heard my husband's assurance, and the big stone in my heart fell to the ground.
Sure enough, my husband has changed his work schedule since then, and he spends at least two days a week with me as a couple.
We would go shopping, watch movies and eat together, and sometimes we would simply drive to the surrounding scenic spots. He would carefully ask me what I thought and do everything he could to accommodate all my requests.
Life like this is what I wanted to see when I first got married. Life is a long road, you will inevitably stumble, as long as you turn back in time, happiness will eventually come.
Now I have completely come out of the shadow of depression, and my husband and I have regained the sweet time. All of this is thanks to the enlightenment and support of my in-laws, so that my husband can understand the true meaning of being a husband. With their good in-laws, I don't have to worry about my marriage.
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