In 2008, the comedy TV series "Ma Dashuai", which swept major TV stations, made Cao Jiarui, who was young and promising and had superb acting skills, become famous in one fell swoop, and "Sister Xiaoyun" became the title of the audience. However, just a year later, Cao Jiarui mysteriously disappeared from public view.
Some people rumored that the reason why she encountered this incident may be because she attracted the attention of Zhao Benshan, and the two had contact; Or maybe it's because she provoked people she shouldn't have provoked, which led to this result.
She is now 37 years old, so what kind of life is she living? What is the truth behind it?
In 2003, when Cao Jiarui was about to enter the university gate, a chance chance changed her fate as an ordinary dancer.
A classmate told her that the TV series "Ma Dashuai", starring Zhao Benshan, was recruiting actors, and suggested that she could go to audition. At first, Cao Jiarui was hesitant about this, because she had no acting experience after all. But with the encouragement of her friends, she eventually auditioned.
Cao Jiarui felt a little nervous on the day of the interview, what she never expected was that Zhao Benshan himself was among the interview examiners. In front of them, Cao Jiarui showed off without makeup, then danced a dance and sang a short song.
Her outstanding performance moved all the examiners, especially Zhao Benshan, who praised Cao Jiarui's appearance and talent, thinking that she was very suitable for being an actor. Sure enough, Cao Jiarui soon received a notification that he had been given a small role.
In the movie "Ma Dashuai", Cao Jiarui played the role of Miss ** "Xiao Yun", although she was only a supporting role, but her appearance left a deep impression on the audience.
In this performance, Cao Jiarui not only gained valuable acting experience, but she also went to the scene every day after work to learn the performances of other actors.
Zhao Benshan took a fancy to her potential in the next day.
Second, the third sequel continues to give her a chance to reuse.
Cao Jiarui is passionate about acting, she often invites her classmates to rehearse scripts together, and although her acting skills are not mature enough, she always puts herself into it.
She once rehearsed an action scene with her classmates in the dormitory, but accidentally tossed the sheets to the ground, causing a lot of laughter. However, she was not discouraged and continued to work hard to delve into the art of acting.
After the great success of "Ma Dashuai", Zhao Benshan was very interested in Cao Jiarui and invited her to play a role in the new drama "Mr. Kanto".
Cao Jiarui starred in three works in a row, and her popularity gradually increased. As a newcomer, she was often bullied by senior actors, but she never complained, but silently learned the acting skills of her predecessors.
Cao Jiarui doesn't care about fame and fortune, what she pursues is to make a breakthrough in the field of acting, which has won her the love of many seniors. However, just as her career was booming, she faced the first moral decision in her life.
Cao's agent informed her that several investors wanted to have dinner with her, so she was well prepared.
Because of sticking to his principles, Cao Jiarui did not hesitate to refuse the agent's request. She believes that even though this renunciation may take a toll on her acting career, it must not go against her beliefs. However, the broker was completely unable to understand Cao Jiarui's choice.
The agent was furious and warned Cao Jiarui mercilessly that if she didn't follow the unspoken rules, she would never succeed in the entertainment industry.
At that time, Cao Jiarui felt very angry, because she was not willing to trade her innocence for her future, so she made a firm decision - she decisively chose to leave.
Cao Jiarui's resources have all been canceled, and all the crews are looking for other actors, resulting in her being comprehensively ** and unable to find performance opportunities in the entertainment industry.
Although Cao Jiarui tried to contact other producers on her own, due to her lack of connections and her previous strong style gave people the impression of arrogance, she was not answered.
Cao Jiarui felt even more sad that his mentor Zhao Benshan did not lend a helping hand after these incidents.
Zhao Benshan only did some work on the surface when Cao Jiarui needed substantive help the most, but he didn't really help.
Cao Jiarui was very disappointed, she thought that Zhao Benshan would protect her, but she didn't expect that she would have to bear all the consequences alone at a critical moment.
Cao Jiarui disappeared from the entertainment industry and had to give up her favorite acting career, which was undoubtedly a huge blow to her. And so she disappeared.
Although she is still subjected to various suppression and retaliation by the agency from time to time, Cao Jiarui has never regretted her original choice, because she was also a dream-chasing girl.
In 1986, born in Shenyang, Liaoning Province, in an ordinary worker family, Cao Jiarui is a daughter. Since she was a child, she has shown a strong interest in the performing arts, and she is always the first to sign up for any cultural and artistic activities held by the school or the community.
Since she was in elementary school, she has often gone to the nearby dance studio to practice, and whenever she has free time, she always devotes herself to dancing, and often practices until late at night.
Seeing Cao Jiarui's love and persistence in dance, the teacher and parents decided to fully support her dream and enrolled her in a professional dance course.
Under the careful guidance of the dance teacher, Cao Jiarui's dance talent has been fully displayed, she is not only proficient in a variety of basic dance movements, but also often creates and performs small programs in the class and school cultural activities, which is loved by teachers and students.
The students agreed that teaming up with Cao Jiarui was simply earned, because she always inspired the enthusiasm of the whole group.
After graduating from junior high school, Cao Jiarui was actively recommended by his dance teacher to enter a professional art school to continue his studies. In school, she trained diligently every day, practicing dance for 7-8 hours a day.
After years of hard training, she not only improved her dancing skills by leaps and bounds, but also became slender and moving, exuding a smart dancer temperament.
When she was 17 years old, Shenyang held a "smiling ambassador" competition, and Cao Jiarui's friends encouraged her to participate. She didn't have much hope at the time, but she made it to the finals with a sweet and bright smile.
Cao Jiarui walked onto the stage in a pale yellow dress, showing her elegant demeanor step by step, constantly swaying a moving smile, which made the judges show their appreciative eyes.
In the end, this girl won the "Best Smile Award", which is undoubtedly the first important honor in Cao Jiarui's life, and it also indicates the arrival of her bright future.
Cao Jiarui believes that winning this award is an important turning point in her life, and it was in 2004 that she was admitted to the film and television performance major of Benshan Art College of Liaoning University.
She worked hard to learn acting skills in art schools, actively participated in talent competitions inside and outside the school, and actively pursued her dream of acting career.
Whenever she thinks about her childhood dream of dancing, her heart is full of strength, but she never imagined that she would be locked down in this industry. Luckily, though, she found a path that really suited her.
Cao Jiarui returned to her alma mater, the School of Arts, in 2018 to become an acting teacher. With her outstanding acting talent and rich acting experience, she was soon officially hired as a teacher by the school.
Cao Jiarui not only teaches his acting skills in his teaching position, but also strives to cultivate students' interests and abilities, so he has won the love of many students and parents.
She cares about each student and often gives them suggestions for improvement after class, so it is the most anticipated moment.
One day, Cao Jiarui and his friend Lin Sisi were walking by the small lake by the campus when they accidentally ran into a rural man who had just finished a day's work in the fields and was about to go home.
After talking to each other, they found that they had similar interests and hobbies, and the other party was gentle and reserved and grateful for life. Cao Jiarui also liked his simple character, and gradually, the two fell in love.
Lin Sisi planned a warm and timeless wedding for Cao Jiarui, marking their official entry into the palace of marriage in 2021. The groom, Mr. Zhang, also customised a delicate wedding ring, and both relatives and friends were very happy with the couple.
Cao Jiarui welcomed her lovely daughter Huihui soon after getting married, and the family of three lived a warm and happy life in a country cottage. Now 36 years old, Cao Jiarui's life is simple, but he is happy.
Cao Jiarui is still committed to teaching and educating people, and her courses are loved by students; Mr. Cheung is diligent in running his own small business, while taking care of the orchard and taking care of the family.
The family of three often walks around campus or in the countryside, and on weekends they cook together. And every holiday, they embark on a journey with their daughter to visit places of interest.
Occasionally, Cao Jiarui will also visit the teacher with his family, and the relationship between the two families is still very deep.
Cao Jiarui and the teacher often talk about various memories of the past, and when recalling the situation of participating in the art examination back then, they can't help but sigh with a smile, and the experience of life is really unpredictable.
The unspoken rules incident encountered by Cao Jiarui is only the tip of the iceberg, and in the entertainment industry, even popular stars have experienced the intrusion of unspoken rules.
Many actresses have experienced "unspoken rules" after stepping into the entertainment industry, a phenomenon that is both sad and frightening. For example, when actor Yang Mi was still an obscurity, he almost suffered from the director's "unspoken rules".
She was filming in a film and television crew at the time and stayed in a hotel arranged by the producer. Late one night, Yang Mi suddenly received a text message from the director, to the effect that she should go to the director's room to "discuss" the script. Yang Mi understood the director's intentions in his heart, and suddenly felt nervous.
As a newly debuted actor, she had no background support, and she didn't dare to offend the director, so Yang Mi quickly contacted her agent for help. The agent told her that it was okay to pretend she didn't see the text message and that it was better to ignore it. So Yang Mi followed the agent's advice.
The next day, Yang Mi received a notice that her previous role had changed hands, citing "uncooperative work". At that time, she felt very sad and helpless, and the good role that once belonged to her was inexplicably lost.
20 years ago, actor Zhang Yu ** revealed the evidence of the "unspoken rules" of many directors against her, revealing the secrets of the entertainment industry.
Zhang Yu anonymously sent several videotapes and a letter of guarantee involving the transaction to **.
Her relationships with multiple directors are recorded on videotape, and the non-disclosure agreement details that if she sleeps with her, the director will give her a chance to play a certain play or a certain amount of benefits.
Zhang Yu also revealed that this is just the tip of the iceberg, and all the performance opportunities she has obtained have come through physical exchange.
It is precisely because Zhang Yu dares to expose the inside story that the word "unspoken rules" is known to the general public. However, this also caused Zhang Yu to suffer a heavy price, being marginalized and **.
It is clear from these cases that many new actors will encounter the dilemma of "exchanging their bodies for opportunities". If they choose to refuse, they may miss out on a rare opportunity for development, but if they succumb to it, they may be hurt psychologically.
Cao Jiarui firmly said "no" and bravely faced the "unspoken rules", although this led to the failure of her career and the loss of the opportunity to become a rich celebrity, isn't her current life happy?
Perhaps there are still many insiders in the entertainment industry that we don't know. In the face of fame and fortune, everyone will make their own choice. So, how should we find a balance between success and happiness? Perhaps the answer to this question varies from person to person.