In interpersonal communication, we often hear the terms "confidante" and "confidant". Although the difference between these two words is only one word, the meaning behind them is very different. Today, let's talk about the differences between red and blue faces, and use the vernacular to let you better understand the differences between the two.
1. Differences in definitions
A confidante usually refers to a woman who is very good to a man. The word "red face" here often has some romantic and ambiguous colors, reminiscent of beautiful female images. And the blue-faced confidant refers to a very good male friend of a woman. The word "blue face" here is relatively less emotional, and more emphasizes the deep friendship between each other.
2. Differences in emotional investment
There is often a subtle emotional relationship between confidants. Although they do not necessarily develop into lovers, the status of both parties in each other's hearts is often very special. Men may have some emotions towards confidants that go beyond friendship, while women may see confidantes as a kind of spiritual sustenance. In contrast, the emotional investment between a blue-faced confidant may be more pure and rational. They pay more attention to each other's spiritual communication and mutual support, rather than being overly entangled in emotional entanglements.
3. Differences in the way of communication
The way confidants interact with each other is often more subtle and secretive. They may choose some more private places to communicate, such as cafes, parks, etc. The communication between Lan Yan's confidants is more open and candid. They may get to know each other in public or at a party, and then gradually develop a deep friendship. In addition, the communication between confidants may also involve some common interests or topics, such as movies, travel, etc. The interaction between confidants may pay more attention to each other's inner feelings and life experiences.
Fourth, differences in social cognition
In terms of social cognition, there are also certain differences between confidants and confidants. Due to the influence of traditional concepts, people often have a more complex attitude towards confidants. On the one hand, they may think that confidantes are an important part of a man's spiritual life; On the other hand, they may also have a distrustful or jealous attitude towards their confidantes. In contrast, a confidante may be more accepted and recognized in social cognition. It is widely believed that a blue-faced confidante is a healthy, positive friendship relationship that contributes to a woman's growth and well-being.
5. Impact on each other's lives
Confidantes may have a special role to play in each other's lives. They may be able to give support and help to each other at critical moments and become an integral part of each other's lives. At the same time, there may also be some competition and jealousy among confidants, especially when it comes to people or things they like. And Lanyan confidants pay more attention to mutual support and growth between each other. They may give each other advice and support in their careers, families, etc., and face the challenges and difficulties in life together.
6. How to maintain the relationship
Maintaining a relationship between a confidant and a confidant also requires a certain amount of skill and wisdom. For confidants, both parties need to maintain a certain distance and a sense of mystery to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings and entanglements due to being too close. At the same time, both parties also need to learn to communicate and understand, and respect each other's feelings and choices. For the confidante, the key to maintaining a relationship is to be sincere and honest. Both parties need to be honest about their thoughts and feelings, and work together to solve problems and difficulties. In addition, Lan Yan confidants also need to maintain a certain amount of contact and interaction with each other to maintain friendship and affection between each other.
In conclusion, although confidantes and confidantes are both very important beings in interpersonal relationships, they have obvious differences in definition, emotional investment, communication style, social cognition, impact on each other's lives, and maintaining relationships. Understanding these differences can help us better understand and deal with our relationship with red or blue faces, and make life more colorful. Emotion