In their daily work, many people are not distressed by the work itself, but tired by dealing with interpersonal relationships.
The relationship between colleagues is very delicate, and sometimes it is necessary to talk about work and sometimes feelings, and there is both cooperation and competition.
We must be honest with each other, but we must not throw away all our hearts. It is not easy to get along with enemies and friends.
If you want to keep yourself from suffering, here are 8 tips to keep in mind.
1.Collaborate with colleagues and keep records of communications
Don't look at the usual good relationship between colleagues, once there is a mistake in the work, it may become a different face. Therefore, when cooperating with colleagues to share a task, it is important to keep a good record of various communications. In this way, if the task is completed well, you will not be robbed of the credit; If there is any problem, you can also check it yourself, and you don't have to carry the black pot.
2.Keep an appropriate distance
The friendship between colleagues is only superficial, but in fact, it is fundamentally a relationship of interests. A casual remark from the boss can break the relationship in an instant. No matter how good the relationship between colleagues, please keep an appropriate distance so that you do not get hurt.
3.Don't talk about other people's lives
Work is work, life is life, and it is best not to intersect between the two. I came to work in the company to make money, and material and money were the primary goals. Don't talk about other people's privacy in life, so as not to cause unnecessary misunderstandings and contradictions, and then affect everyone's work, then the gains outweigh the losses.
4.Don't share the privacy of your life
Not only should you not care about the privacy of other people's lives, but you must also keep your own privacy confidential. Although I feel that we have a good relationship with each other at the moment, I feel that there is nothing to share my little secrets. But if there is a conflict of interest one day, you are likely to be betrayed by the other party, and more is better than less.
5.Do not deny the work of colleagues
How to evaluate the work of colleagues is a leader's business, not your business, just do your own job. Don't deny your colleague's work, if you do the same job, you won't necessarily do a better job than the other person, and if the leader pushes the job to you again, you may become a joke. Besides, you don't need to offend others because of work, and it is not worth it to be ruined by official business.
6.Develop the ability to work
Although everyone is doing the same job, you need to make sure that you are better than others, and pay more attention to cultivating your work ability. Of course, you don't have to be too good, just be better than others. In this way, if you encounter an emergency, at least you will be a little safer than others.
7.Not involved in office politics
Office politics is often linked to interpersonal relationships and is quite complex. Even if you are on the right side now, there is no guarantee that there will be no problems in the future. And once something goes wrong, it won't be a trifle. Focus on your work and don't get involved in other useless things.
8.Maintain a positive mindset
In most cases, work is anti-human and does not make you happy, otherwise you will not live well as long as you work. Work is boring and even painful. Therefore, you have to adjust your mindset and stay positive, and if you want to make money, you have to pay a price.