If you don't do anything, you won't grow wise! I only found out how important connections are after I lost my job! After the company issued a layoff notice, I was over 43 years old, knowing that such an age is not good for a long job in society, so I wanted to find someone and go through the back door, but I searched all my connections, only to find that there was no available at all!
Why would I still have such a network when I have been working for more than 10 years? Because of my previous cognition, I used to think that work is simply to do a good job and complete the things arranged by the leader. As for the mutual relationship between friends, colleagues, and leaders, it is unnecessary, but I ignore that this society itself is a circle of relationships.
Under my old perception, I always pursued the principle that there are no friends in the workplace, only interests. And I'm a small ordinary staff member who doesn't have much ability, so I don't build my own friendship, which keeps my connections in a state of stagnation and even regression.
If you don't want to be like me, when you encounter difficulties, you don't even have someone to ask for help, then please use long-term thinking to maintain your connections!
Research from the Stanford Research Center shows that a person earns money, 125% from his knowledge, 875% comes from connections.
You say that connections are not important. If you want to be more competitive in the workplace, you must first use your network as a resource, treat your relationship as a career, straighten out your network, and build a high-quality network.
Let's see if you can write 150 people, if you can't write it, it means that you haven't broken through the social circle, and you need to continue to accumulate your core group. When socializing, stay away from people who bully, complain, and are troublesome, because these people will constantly drag you down and bring you negative influences!
If you want to have a stable social circle, you have a network that will maintain you. Always be with people who are tied to your goals. For example, if I am going to give 30 presentations this year, I have to surround myself with more people in the speaking circle who will help me speak.
People are the product of relationships, and all your actions are based on the relationships around you, and this relationship determines what kind of person you can become! If you don't manage your relationship well and are always immersed in the negative atmosphere around you, then what kind of person will you become? You can see how important it is to build your social relationships!
If you want to have a relationship circle that will help you grow, do the following 6 steps:
Always be with people who are tied to your goals.
Fixed goals to do with fixed people;
Truly meaningful socializing is when we collide with each other!
, the critical moment appeared:
The important person is not how much, but how much you get along effectively with. Use the calendar to keep a record of special days and get along effectively with each other such as birthdays and openings.
At special times, gifts are given; When others are sad and sad, give care and companionship!
Able to say things that are relevant to the other person. This is important! For example, meet a new person, talk about how you met him, learn to understand the person's past, relevant information.
How to build a network that will help you grow, please start by sorting out your network resources, learn these 6 steps, help you accelerate your improvement and grow quickly!
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