A person is first and foremost himself
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* There are thousands of types, but there are always many people who prefer to read sweet texts, the reason for this is probably because the reality is difficult, so I love the kind of simple ** happiness more, watching the hero and heroine get happiness in the two-dimensional world, it seems that they can also empathize.
And the author Shi Xingcao's works have always been known for their sweet pets, and the book "Grinder" is naturally no exception. If you want to add a label to the book "Grinder", "two-way running" should be the most appropriate.
The heroine Bo Ying is the eldest lady of the Bo family, with a wealthy family, and has been favored since she was a child, so she has developed a heartless, optimistic and naïve character.
The encounter between Bo Ying and He Jingxiu is like a drama - on the stairs, He Jingxiu rejects the confession of others, and under the stairs, Bo Ying is moved by his tenderness when he rejects others, and since then, a vigorous pursuit has begun.
Bo Ying said that she wanted to be the first to date He Jingxiu after graduation, but this beautiful expectation was like a flag in the TV series, which showed the separation of the two early.
It wasn't until seven years later that the twenty-four-year-old Bo Ying returned from school, went to his favorite company for an interview, and unexpectedly reunited with He Jingxiu. When Bo Ying was still hesitating to join the company because of He Jingxiu, the other party had already opened a gentle love net, just waiting for Bo Ying to fall into it.
The first few times they met, the seemingly unfamiliar attitude made Bo Ying feel that He Jingxiu had forgotten him, after all, time was in a hurry, and seven years had passed.
She corrected her mentality, only thinking that He Jingxiu was the leader of the company, but He Jingxiu was unwilling to do so, because it was his sweetheart who had been waiting for seven years.
In the face of He Jingxiu's full offensive, step by step, Bo Ying had to admit that he had never let go of He Jingxiu, and He Jingxiu was finally able to tell her the answer that was not handed to her back then.
Clearing the clouds and seeing the sunshine, the love that goes both ways is the best!
And what makes people feel more beautiful is the state of Bo Ying's love for He Jingxiu, and the way He Jingxiu loves Bo Ying.
Bo Ying loves food, figurines and dolls, cute puppies and delicate little dresses, she wants to become a good lawyer through hard work, and she has never given up her hobbies and dreams because of her love for Kyung-so.
Similarly, by He Jingxiu's side, she is cheerful and sunny, innocent and pure, in addition to love and cherishment, as well as guidance and support, no matter what she does, as long as she feels happy, He Jingxiu will not stop her.
He never imprisoned her with his own thoughts and ideas, and he was unwilling to manipulate her with his own will. In his heart, Bo Ying has never been his appendage, she will always be herself.
The attitude of Bo Ying and He Jingxiu appropriately expresses a point of view - love should be respect, giving, respecting each other's hobbies and dreams, and giving enough support and encouragement, rather than controlling, possessing, and destroying the personality and future of another person with their own selfish desires.
As we grow up, when we take on more and more roles, we sometimes forget that in addition to all identities, a person is first and foremost himself.
No one should be bound by others, and no one should be bound by others. Love yourself with sincerity before you can love others.