When it comes to educating children, many people think of asking them to make up more classes, do more questions, memorize more, and strive to improve their test scores. After all, the entrance examination and college entrance examination are based on academic performance. I have been teaching for almost 30 years, and I have been on the front line of education and teaching for nearly 20 years. I have to be a class teacher and a teacher, and I am often tired after being busy with a mess in school, and it is difficult to tutor my children with love and patience! Surprisingly, both of my children were more worry-free, giving me more time to reflect on the reasons for this:
Do a good jobChildsublifeLead by example。Do unto others as you would have them do to you. Parents must take the lead in what their children are required to do, so that their children will be subtly influenced and follow the school without hesitation. Children are required to go to bed before 10 p.m. and get up at 6 a.m. This has been my routine for more than 30 years, and my children have developed a good habit of going to bed early and waking up early. In order to meet this requirement, he had to finish his exercises early in the afternoon after school and pack up his things. In this way, there is a lot less time for grinding foreign workers, and the efficiency of learning and doing things is invisibly improved.
Anytimewith childrenStreamshimIn school and beLearnaspects of things。Every afternoon on the way home from school and at dinner time, my child would tell me about the day's school, what happened in their class, and what happened to him. I often understand the problems and ideological dynamics encountered in children's life and learning from the trivial problems, so that I can give correct guidance in a targeted manner.
Read more booksRead diligently and love to readI have several large cabinets of books at home, and I have always insisted on reading, and even reading is an indispensable part of my lifeEvery night before I go to sleep, I lie in bed and read, and my son leans next to me to read, watching him push the book and fall asleep. This has become a habit and is a must before going to sleep. What a pleasant thing it is to let reading accompany him to sleep! In addition, whenever there is free time, the child will involuntarily pull out his favorite books and read them with relish, and he has fallen deeply in love with reading.
Keep writing, don't care how much。Keeping a journal is one of the things I do every day, and I haven't stopped for 26 years. At first, my child learned from me, fishing for three days and drying nets for two days, but I couldn't persevere. I encouraged him to write a sentence, and the child wrote it intermittently. As you write, your child's thinking is clearer, her sentences are smoother, and her choice of words and sentences is more accurate. As long as children are willing to write, love to write, and persist in writing, no matter what the content is, they have taken a big step. Seeing it a thousand times is basically something written by someone else, and only writing it out with your hands is your own, so I personally think that writing it is more important than reading it.
Be a good companion in your child's learningAs long as I have free time, I will definitely be there for my children. When he was studying, I sat next to him to prepare for classes, read books, and supervise my children while completing my own work. Let the child always feel that his parents are always the same as him, and read and study with him all the time; Understand that learning is not only his business, but also an indispensable part of the parent's work. This way the child has no excuse to be lazy.
It is better to teach a man to fish than to teach him to fish. There is a time when the fish is finished, but the method of catching it can last a lifetime. Improving grades is only a short-term goal, and if you want your child to master the method of lifelong use, you still need to put more effort into your child's thoughts, behaviors, and habits.