In this life, in fact, everyone will experience some major events in ten years, which will also become a difficult time in life. Only by maintaining a good attitude, a strong heart, and facing it with strength can we succeed in life. Everything will go smoothly.
Many people find it most difficult when they reach middle and old age. This is because they will encounter some ups and downs at this stage and feel the hardships of life. It is also a test of myself.
Some people can't make it through, and that could be the end of their lives. Some people survive and they will be happy for the rest of their lives.
Generally speaking, in the decade from the age of 55 to 65, there are four difficult hurdles, and many people are struggling with the third hurdle. When it comes, we must be ready and at peace with it.
1. Encounter difficulties in your career.
After a person reaches the age of 55, until he retires at the age of 65, this decade is actually very crucial.
Some people have achieved financial freedom in the past ten years, and their careers have stabilized, and their careers have also stabilized. They can even retire safely and hassle-free. 。
But some people have a career crisis at this stage.
Some people have failed in business and have to declare bankruptcy, so they can only work hard to make money and pay off debts all their lives.
Some have lost their jobs or been laid off and cannot find a job. They don't know what to do with their small business and feel irritated.
Some people trust others to invest in projects because they have some money on hand. As a result, they were scammed and all their savings were spent. They may not be able to think about it anymore.
When people reach middle age, from 55 to 65 years old, don't be crushed by career crises, work crises, etc., there are still decades in life, you must face them well, overcome difficulties, and believe that everything will be fine. Elapse.
2. The relationship between husband and wife breaks down.
In the decade from the age of 55 to 65, some people have actually begun to retire.
After retirement, the couple has their own things to do and start living their own lives. There is no communication, no discussion, they live like strangers.
I am reminded of Meng Mingwei in "Fireworks". She is not yet sixty years old, but she is already retired. She worries about her family every day. Her husband is also retired, but he doesn't care about the family. He only cares about playing for himself and what he wants. Make quick money.
But Meng Mingwei's husband didn't love her at all. He was with her just for the money. When he stole Meng Mingwei's money to invest, Meng Mingwei found out and heard her husband laughing at her in front of others, saying that he was unlucky. She had just gotten married, and when she had an argument with her husband, Meng Mingwei was told by her husband that she was worthless, so she began to think about it and almost wanted to commit suicide.
In the end, the daughter found out about this matter, and she stood up and asked her to divorce her father. He was always there for her to get her father to clean up and leave the house.
Meng Mingwei's husband is old. As a result of the breakdown of the couple's relationship, they no longer have a home. This hurdle is actually very difficult.
3. Blind investment is fruitless.
In the decade between the ages of 55 and 65, many people have some savings, and even prepare a sum of money for their children's marriage.
But I don't know when it started. Some people show up to me and say they have money and make money, and they start fooling you and letting you participate.
In fact, most of these people are**. If you don't see clearly, easily trust these people, and invest all your savings in these people, then once your money is transferred out, it will be transferred by others. And then those people start turning off their phones and running away, and you can't find them, and then you realize that you've been scammed.
So, when we reach this stage, even if we have some money, we should not easily trust strangers or some unfamiliar friends, otherwise our money will really be wasted.
Some people get scammed and find out that the money is gone. They couldn't take it anymore and fell, causing tragedy.
Therefore, I hope that everyone can successfully overcome the ups and downs encountered in life and have a beautiful and happy old age.