"The lucky people use their childhood for a lifetime, and the unfortunate people spend a lifetime for their childhood. ”
ForLi Sito say,She spent her childhood in the shadow of her parents' divorce
's father, Jet Li, abandoned his mother and her, but fell in love with other women, and when she was young, she hated others discussing her star father the most, and even quarreled with each other.
The divorce of her parents has always been her heart disease, and it was not until she became an adult that she gradually forgave her father after being enlightened by her mother Huang Qiuyan.
But she lacked the love of her parents since she was a child, and she was always full of fear of marriage because of her parents' divorce, and she didn't dare to try love, and she has been single at the age of 35.
Over the years, Jet Li has also tried to repair the scars in his daughter's heart and tried his best to compensate her, but how can the pain of childhood be so easy to forget.
Maybe she needs to spend her whole life ** her childhood!
Jet Li and Huang Qiuyan have known each other in the martial arts team, and it can be said that they have known each other for a long timeHuang Qiuyan is two years older than Jet Li, not only good-looking, but also has a good family background.
Jet Li is different, his family is relatively poor, and he is silent, Huang Qiuyan has noticed him a long time ago, and has always wanted to help him, in order to consider his feelings, she often asks her classmates to go to her house for dinner on weekends.
The main thing is, of course, calledJet Li, others are by the way,Every time Huang Qiuyan always gives Jet Li a lot of delicious food, her parents see it in their eyes and know their daughter's thoughts.
When the classmates left, they asked Huang Qiuyan if she had a crush on Jet Li, Huang Qiuyan's shy neck was red, and her parents smiled and didn't ask again.
In fact, Jet Li also understands in his heart that Huang Qiuyan cares for him, but he feels that he is not worthy of her.
Later, in a performance, Jet Li broke his leg while riding a horse, and Huang Qiuyan took care of him every inch until his leg injury was healed, which made the other team members envious.
Slowly, Jet Li's attitude towards Huang Qiuyan also changed, and the two came together under the touch, and soon entered the palace of marriage.
After marriage, Jet Li's career slowly improved, and he starred in it"Shaolin Temple" and "Shaolin Kid".made him famous and popular all over the country.
A year after marriage, Huang Qiuyan gave birth to her daughter Li Si, and the family's expenses increasedIn order to better develop his career, Jet Li decided to go abroad for development.
After the two discussed, Huang Qiuyan unconditionally supported him, and the family went abroad, thinking that with their domestic fame, they could show their talents, but the cruelty of reality poured cold water on him.
He found that foreign audiences were not interested in him, which made him a little disappointed, despite this, Jet Li did not give up, and still ran the crew every day, during which his second daughter was also born.
's career abroad is at a loss, just at this time, Luo Wei in Hong Kong is preparing for the filming of "Dragon in the World", and the protagonist has not found the right person, so he suddenly thought of Jet Li and contacted him.
At that time, Jet Li had not filmed abroad for a long time, so he agreed without hesitation, and because his wife had not yet recovered from childbirth, he went back to Hong Kong alone.
Thinking of waiting for his wife to get better and then taking his wife and daughter back, who would have thought that the relationship between the two would come to an end.
Jet Li is in love with someone else!
In the shooting"Dragon in the World".Jet Li got acquaintedWisdom, Li Zhi can be said to be a goddess-level existence at that time, and she is a goddess in the hearts of countless people.
Jet Li fell in love with Li Zhi at first sight, but Li Zhi was not interested in him, there were many people who pursued her, Jet Li was not outstanding, it was just Jet Li's wishful thinking, for Jet Li's pursuit, Li Zhi proposed a ten-year appointment.
Since then, Jet Li has completely fallen, although Huang Qiuyan is abroad, she is still worried about Jet Li, every time she hits**, the two of them chat for a long time before, and then when you beat**Jet Li, he always likes to ignore it.
It didn't take long for Huang Qiuyan to receive Jet Li**, and she was full of joy, but she was told:"I'm in love with someone else, let's separate! ”
Huang Qiuyan was heartbroken, now that the child is still young, she doesn't want the child to be without a father like this, so she begged Jet Li bitterly:"The child is still young, for the sake of the child's face, don't divorce, okay? ”
But Jet Li didn't agree to her, but still insisted on divorce, and hung up ** Huang Qiuyan cried bitterly, the two daughters were still young and didn't know what was going on, and they cried when they saw their mother crying.
Li Si has never seen his father since then, until 1991, when Huang Qiuyan returned to China with her daughter to go through divorce procedures, Jet Li left the American house to Huang Qiuyan, and the two daughters were also left to Jet Li to raise, and he returned to the United States alone.
At that time, Jet Li's economic conditions were better, and he could give his two daughters a better life.
Usually because he is too busy with work, he has no time to take care of his two daughters, so Jet Li sent his daughter to his mother, and since then Li Si and his sister have become left-behind children.
At the age of three, she is not sensible and doesn't know what it means for her parents to be separated, she only knows that her parents are not aroundEvery day, Li Si is looking forward to her parents coming to see her.
But every time she didn't wait for her parents to come to see her, and slowly as she grew older, Li Si hadn't seen her parents for a long time, and she also noticed that something was wrong, and every time her sister thought about her parents, she would comfort her sister.
Once she chased after her grandmother and asked why her parents hadn't come to see her for so long, and her grandmother didn't know how to answer, but always comforted her.
Slowly Li Si had a lot of complaints about his parents, when he was in school, Li Si was particularly disgusted by others discussing his celebrity father, and every time they mentioned it, Li Si's heart was poked once.
The divorce of her parents caused great trauma to her young heart, and seeing Li Si so disgusted with her father, her grandmother had no choice but to comfort her:"In the future, I will always be with you with my grandmother. ”
Jet Li tried hard to catch up with Li Zhi, at that time, Li Zhi had just ended a relationship and had not yet come out, not only that, Li Zhi also owed a lot of money.
For the ten-year contract, Jet Li worked harder to film, and the money he earned was used to help Lizhi pay off his debts, and finally Lizhi was moved by Jet Li's sincerity.
In 1999, the two ended their ten-year contract and entered the marriage hallAnd Li Si, who grew up in her grandmother's house, already knew that her parents were divorced, and it was her father who abandoned her and her mother, which made her even more resentful of her father.
When she heard that her father had remarried, she couldn't accept it, she thought that it was her father who betrayed her mother, which caused the family to break up, and she couldn't forgive her father.
After getting married, Jet Li also went to see Li Si and his youngest daughter, and wanted to take them to live in Hong Kong together, and his sister was very happy to see her father, but Li Si, who was already sensible, did not accept it.
She couldn't accept living with her father and stepmother, she thought about her mother, her mother had been in the United States, she was not doing well, and she had to rely on others to help her, and then her life slowly got better.
After marriage, Jet Li was very fond of Li Zhi, and even handed over all the money he earned to her.
And because of this, I missed it"Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon".In this movie, Jet Li doesn't care about this, he is willing to sacrifice everything for Lizhi.
Later, Li Zhi also gave birth to two daughters to Jet Li, and Jet Li spoiled them as princesses, as long as the daughter wanted even the stars in the sky, Jet Li would pick them up to her.
Not only that, but he also sent his daughter to the best schools for educationIn order to give his daughter a better life, he also gave his two daughters a villa each.
For Li Zhi's daughters, Jet Li can be said to be a very competent and good father, but Huang Qiuyan's daughters, Jet Li rarely cares about them.
This also made Li Si hate his father even more, and the same daughter was treated differently, which really chilled Li Si's heart.
When Li Si was 18 years old, she took her sister to the United States to find her mother, and although her mother had remarried, she welcomed them very much.
Huang Qiuyan has experienced a lot in the United States for so many years, and she has long been down-looking about the previous things, and now she has her own life to live, and she feels that there is no need to dwell on the past.
After talking to her daughter Li Si several times, she found that Li Si had a deep resentment towards her father, and in order to untie her daughter's knot, she persuaded her many times and comforted her.
During this time with his mother, Li Si was very happySlowly, under the guidance of her mother, she also forgave her father, no longer dwell on the past, and start living well.
In 2010, Li Si graduated from university, found a stable job, worked for a few years and was promoted to management, after a stable career, her mother persuaded her to find a partner quickly, and she was not young.
But Li Si has been perfunctory every time, in fact, there have been many people who have pursued Li Si in recent years, but Li Si has never dared to take that step, she is afraid of love.
But she never told her mother, and then her mother didn't urge her again, thinking that it would definitely not be a problem for her daughter to find a good family after she was so good.
In this way, Li Si still didn't fall in love until she was 35 years old, Huang Qiuyan felt wrong, so she talked to her daughter, and later found that her daughter didn't want to talk, but she was afraid, and she was afraid of marriage.
The divorce of her father has been Li Si's heart disease for so many years, and the lack of parental care since she was a child has left an indelible shadow for her.
Over the years, Jet Li has also realized that he has neglected his concern for Li Si and tried many ways to make up for his daughter, but Li Si has always resisted in his heart.
The damage caused by the divorce of her parents in childhood was huge for Li Si, and it also affected her later life, including marriage. This made her afraid of marriage.
Some people are lucky to come out, but some people have to spend their whole life **childhood!
I hope Li Si can come out as soon as possible and find his belonging.