There is a saying in "The Story of the Small Window": "Poor people have nothing, and when they are dying, they get rid of words." ”When a person is very depressed, if he can get tired of being poor, he can be liberated.
Poverty is a process and an experience. If you break the jar, you really lose everything.
A person with a brain, cultivating at a low point, can still be rich.
There are some ways to be rich and spend very little, or even a penny, and you need to know as soon as possible.
Be alone and enrich the "spirit".
Zhuangzi said: "Alone with the spirit of heaven and earth." ”When a person is lonely, he is actually one with heaven and earth, and he can calm down and absorb the nutrients of nature.
When Jiang Taigong was fishing, he heard the call of King Wen of Zhou; Zhuge Liang lived in seclusion in a thatched cottage and was worshiped by Liu Bei as a military advisor.
In fact, when Zhuangzi was fishing by the river, the king of Chu sent someone to invite him to be an official. But he refused, insisting on being a carefree ordinary person.
What's even more valuable is that Zhuangzi can also hold the skeleton as a pillow and talk to the skeleton in his dreams.
"Carry me in shape, work me to live, I to grow old, and rest me to die".In the eyes of the wise, life and death can be indifferent, what is there to fear?
The ups and downs of life, in the end, will return to dust. If you can be calm, then you will not be afraid of the destitute life at all.
"The ancient sages are all lonely" tells us that we must endure loneliness in order to enjoy the prosperity of reciprocity. A person who lives in a place full of lights for a long time will lose himself.
Learn to be alone, nourish your spirit, and have the courage to start again.
Reading enriches "faith".
As the saying goes, "Horses travel thousands of miles to eat grass, wolves travel thousands of miles to eat meat." ”Not everyone will reap the rewards when they set out. Not all people can make a lot of money after a few tosses. The key is how much wisdom you have, what kind of material is it.
Rotten wood is not to be carved; The mud doesn't stick to the walls.
If you want to rise up, you have to study hard and make yourself a capable person.
A person who is only eight years tall either does not speak, or makes a splash; Trees that have been dormant for a winter can come to life as long as they smell the breath of spring.
Du Fu said: "Read more than 10,000 volumes, and write like a god." ”The books you read will become your treasure. Before something begins, you get to the end and you know how to deal with the complexity of things.
Doing something you can do with confidence may seem difficult, but it's actually as easy as it gets.
Exercise, enrich the "body".
Freezing three feet is not a day's cold", and anyone who wants to succeed must last for a long time. Therefore, whether the body can survive or not is very important.
Zhuge Liang was a hero, but because of old age and illness, he had to give up his plan to chase the Central Plains; The Japanese genius swordsman Okita Soji was originally a martial artist, but because of illness, he only lived to be 25 years old.
Believe that health is the greatest wealth in life. No matter how frustrated you are, don't give up exercising.
Japanese writer Haruki Murakami, starting in his thirties, has been running for more than 30 years. He also often participates in marathons, and when others run half the marathon, he insists on running to the finish line.
"When you run desperately, you feel as if everything has been squeezed out of the deepest part of your body, and a feeling of self-abandonment arises," he says. ”When you move, the exhaust gases in your body are discharged, and your worries disappear. You can also take the opportunity to vent your emotions and complain about the unfairness of society. At the end of the day, you're full of energy, and whatever you want to do, you'll get off to a good start.
Kindness, rich "connections".
The wall fell down and everyone pushed it, and the road was followed by everyone to help it. Anyone who wants to become a great person needs the help of others.
Don't be fooled by the "loner" chicken soup for the soul. Living a lonely life blindly will hurt you.
Understand that being alone is a state of mind, not a lifelong state. Even jackals, tigers and leopards will also look for partners, hunt together, and share the fruits of victory together.
The key to how to gather contacts is to "insist on kindness".
There is such a story in "Warning the World": Shi Fu, a farmer who raised silkworms, when he went to sell silk, picked up eight taels of silver. He thought that if he brought the silver home, he would be able to expand the scale of farming. However, he thought about it, if the person who lost the money did not have a rich family, so he couldn't think about it, it would be annoying.
Later, he sat where he was and waited all day for the owner to come. Later, he went to Dongting Lake to buy mulberry leaves, met the owner, and got a lot of free mulberry leaves, so he made a lot of money.
Everything has a cause and effect. Everything you do, it will come back to you in the dark, don't believe it.
You never help others, but you wait for nobles to help you, it's just whimsical.
Endure humiliation and enrich the "pattern".
Lao Tzu said: "Win without fighting, and respond well without words." ”When a person is at his most depressed, you are still arguing with others, and you have to talk better than others, then you will be belittled and trampled on fiercely.
You have to be silent, and don't pay any attention to any manpower on you.
Sun Bin was calculated by Pang Juan, scraped off his kneecaps, and was imprisoned in a pig pen, he pretended to be crazy and stupid, ate pig dung, and finally escaped and became a military strategist; Goujian, the king of Yue, tried his courage while lying on his salary, and later turned defeat into victory and became the overlord.
If you want to achieve great things, you are not to raise your head higher than anyone, but to lower your head more than anyone.
Before the tiger jumps, it will bend down; The snake is about to attack, and its head will shrink back. This is all the wisdom of wanting to exalt and suppress it.
Even if you are a person who asks for food, don't accept fate, but have great ambitions.
Don't worry, life is in the world, endure the anger of a moment, and receive the blessings of a hundred years.
There is a good saying: "Don't look at how tall a tree is, look at how deep the roots are." ”
When life is down, it is at the lowest point, and it is the time to take root downward.
Thinking alone, reading and accumulating energy, exercising and maintaining health, being kind and making friends, enduring humiliation and burden, just when no one is paying attention, you have surpassed many people.
Enrich yourself, and you'll turn over.