I've seen such a question: why do some people live to be 50 years old and die, and some people are still very young at 80 years old?
I suddenly remembered what the poet Feng Xuefeng said: "The beauty and loveliness of a person is not only due to his appearance, but also determines his spiritual outlook." A person of high quality is always young and beautiful. ”Being young is the embodiment of a person's comprehensive quality. It is the same character on the outside and inside, but also the transparent pattern of life, or self-discipline day after day. When a person can still look young after the age of sixty, then his daily life must have special abilities that are worth learning.
First, people who love beauty have outstanding appearances.
As the saying goes, "One white covers a hundred ugliness." ”
However, no one tells you how to become "white". And you don't necessarily know what the concept of "white" represents.
On the street, it is common to meet women who have a thick layer of rouge powder on their faces. From a distance, it's okay, but up close. Especially in the summer, everyone is sweaty, and the rouge powder is wet with sweat, one white and one red.
Montesquieu said, "Beauty must be clean and innocent, in the image, and even more so in the heart." ”True beauty is natural and does not require too much carving. Just like the lotus pond in summer, green leaves with safflowers are enough to make you forget to return; Just like the ancient village in the south of the Yangtze River, the white walls and green tiles are a painting.
Three points depend on looks, and seven points depend on dress. This sentence fascinates many people, but they don't understand that people who really know how to dress up are simple, plain, not charming.
Heavy makeup is easy to obtain, light application is rare, and the most difficult thing is "plain face to the sky". If you are confident enough, don't wear makeup, and smile more, it's your best look.
Second, healthy people are in good spirits.
I've seen a picture: actor Charmaine Sheh showed her 46-year-old self. Wearing a white vest, his hair is tied high, and he does not feel old at all. In addition, there is a scene of her usual training life. Lifting weights and stretching can all be done in one go.
Perhaps, when you are forty or fifty years old, you don't pay much attention to exercise, mainly because you don't have time.
But you're sixty years old and retired, so you should have time. Unfortunately, you may think that it is too late, and the arms and legs have already hardened, and there is no way to wield them.
There is a young "old man" named Wang Shunde, who can still perform on stage at the age of seventy or eighty, and when he is 70 years old, he can still drive a motorcycle and appear on the TV screen with great energy.
Goethe said: "Between today and tomorrow there is a long time; While you still have the energy, learn to do things quickly. ”A sick old man, even if he wears gold and silver, is also senile. Young people, the skin is elastic, the spirit is full, the life is very regular, and there is time to sweat like rain every day.
Beauty is not retouching, but self-cultivation, so that your body will gradually change to youth. If you can't do it for a day, then spend a lifetime doing it.
Third, people who read books have an extraordinary temperament.
Lin Yutang writes in the book: "When we compare the difference between the life of a non-reader and a reader, this is easy to understand. The person who did not develop the habit of reading was imprisoned by the world before him in terms of time and space. ”People who don't read are like being imprisoned by something and can't move.
For example, several elderly people are looking at their mobile phones together**. Those old people who don't study only know how to click on the phone screen at will, and they get stuck at every turn. The old man who loves to learn, but he is at ease.
When chatting, some old people, who don't know what others say, are ridiculed, and think that they are being touted, from beginning to end, like a nerd.
The times are developing with each passing day, and if you don't learn, you will be eliminated. If you want to be young all the time, you have to progress with the times. Otherwise, as soon as you open your mouth, you can only say "old and decayed".
Fourth, happy people, funny and humorous.
In "Dream of Red Mansions", Grandma Liu does not have many scenes, but the impression she left on others is particularly profound.
At that time, Grandma Liu walked into the Grand View Garden, like a lost person. But she quickly calmed down and used humorous words to add points to herself.
For example, in order to make Jia's mother happy, Wang Xifeng planted a big flower on Grandma Liu's head. This nondescript dress made everyone laugh. Grandma Liu was not angry, but said: "When I was young, I also loved romance and flowers. ”
How many things in life are "smiling and generous" in the end, it is better to put it down as soon as possible, smile and pass.People who have a heavy heart and like to scheming have pressed the past of their lives in the bottom of their hearts and turned them into a big stone. Only by loosening the shackles of the soul and being able to untie your scars at will can you really be open-minded.
The good-looking skins are the same, and the interesting souls are one in a thousand. When you're interesting, the world is interesting.
Fifth, kind people, facing the sun.
One of my neighbors, he used to complain that when he opened the back window, he would see a grave, which was sad.
Once, he went to the grave to take a look. The owner of the discovery tomb is not simple, he is a very famous local writer. From then on, he was no longer sad, but in awe.
In the same place, why do some people see the scenery and some people see the garbage? The point is that the mentality is different. Kind people who see everything is good.
If you think about the good in everything, it will really get better. Even if it doesn't get better, it doesn't get depressed.
When people are old and invite sunshine into their lives, then their hearts will be warm, their faces will be ruddy, and their eyes will be bright when they look at people.
Sixth, those who enjoy happiness have a prosperous family and business.
After the age of 60, will you still start a business?
Most people, enjoying retirement, do nothing every day.
There is a saying on the Internet: "If you destroy a person, let him be idle, and he will always be idle." ”
There is nothing to do, in fact, it is the beginning of decadence, and it is really old age. If you're busy every day, there's simply no time to get old. Time flies, and I don't even notice it.
Whether it's starting your own business or helping your children do things, it looks tiring, but it's actually enjoying the time. Every minute and second has become wealth, and it has also become a spring breeze in the family.
People, no matter how capable you are, when you retire, you will know that you are just a "parent". If you can play this role well, your life can really get into the play.
What is Young? It has to do with age, but it doesn't have much to do with it. Really young people dare to grow in reverse.
Keep exercising and be healthy; Study hard and have an outstanding temperament; Caring for others and having a full heart; Help the family and the family prosper; Funny and humorous, with a big smile.
People over 60 are young in appearance, not because there are no wrinkles on their faces, but because they are full of spirit and wisdom.