Recently, I often brush up on such words, such as a cliff-like breakup, such as he didn't say a word, but disappeared into your life.
But will there really be a cliff-like breakup?
There are many opinions on this view.
But in my opinion, those so-called cliff-like breakups were actually premeditated.
Of course, if you are experiencing a cliff-like breakup, you must be very confused as to why this is happening.
The reasons are none other than the following three points:
1. After getting along for a long time, the feelings have faded.
Second, the new love is even better.
3. Discard after weighing the pros and cons.
First of all, let's look at the first one: after getting along for a long time, the feelings are weak.
Any relationship is very hot at the beginning, and you have endless topics to talk about and interesting things to share every day.
But as two people have been together for a long time, one party will inevitably have aesthetic fatigue, and there will be hot and cold.
What's more, they abuse and quarrel with each other, and finally break up like a cliff.
Next, let's take a look at the second one: new love is more up.
Obviously, yesterday you were still hugging each other and swearing an alliance, and today he sent a text message to break up.
I believe that at this time, you must be at a loss, and even self-doubt, is it that you are not good enough, so he mentioned breaking up?
Actually, it's not that you're not good enough, it's that you're too good.
You think about him in everything, and you are reasonable in everything.
When his new love is a drama spirit who cries, makes trouble and hangs himself, you must be the angry bag, because only if he wrongs you, can he coax his new love!
So, it's not your fault that my dear is his new love than yours.
After talking about the second point, let's talk about the third point: giving up after weighing the pros and cons.
You must believe that the feelings between two people are complementary, both in terms of economic conditions and in terms of emotions.
When one side is strong and the other side is weak, there must be constant friction between you.
If at this time, there is a person around him who is better than you in all aspects.
He will definitely choose the one who is better than you in every way.
Because he has a scale in his heart, and the scale is his own pros and cons.
Therefore, there is no cliff-like breakup, it's just that the relationship is changeable, the old love can't match the new love, and one's own interests are more important than the relationship itself.