In this complicated world of marriage, we often look forward to spending our lives with our loved ones and building a happy family together. However, women often get bogged down in marriage, so choosing the right partner becomes a crucial life decision. How to maintain yourself in marriage and become a wise woman?
First of all, a wise woman must know how to always retain her ability to make money. Regardless of marriage, we should learn to rely on ourselves and remain financially independent. Many women choose to give up their careers after marriage, abandon money-making opportunities, and become silent supporters of their families. However, he lost the ability to make money, and every time he asked his partner for money, he seemed unconfident. Most of a person's sense of security depends on their own financial ability, so maintaining the ability to make money independently will make you not controlled by others, let alone fall into a helpless situation when feelings change.
Secondly, maintain a close relationship with your mother's family. After marriage, although he became a member of someone else's family, his mother's family was the eternal backing. Meng Mingwei in the movie "Fireworks" is a typical example, when her marriage fell into a trough, she received the full support of her mother and daughter, and finally chose to divorce. Therefore, after marriage, women still need to maintain close contact with their parents, know how to cherish this family affection, make it their own safe haven, and provide solid support for the twists and turns in life.
Third, you must take control of your salary and savings. In marriage, people's hearts are fickle, and it is wise to keep a hand for yourself. Having an independent income and savings, which are not easily accessible, can provide a way out in the event of marital problems. Meng Mingwei in the movie gave her salary to her husband, but felt humiliated when she needed money. On the contrary, keeping your own property will not only allow you to cope with unexpected situations, but also achieve a complete exit if things go wrong in your marriage. Therefore, women should learn to manage their finances independently and not easily let themselves fall into the predicament of financial dependence.
In summary, smart women are not only able to retain their ability to earn money and maintain a good relationship with their mothers in marriage, but also to control their salaries and savings independently. These are all important pillars of building a happy marriage. No matter who a woman marries, she must know how to treat herself, take care of herself, and have the courage to dare to leave in an unhappy marriage, leaving herself a way out. Only by earning money on your own, maintaining a close relationship with your family, and managing your finances independently can you become a truly intelligent woman.
Finally, what do you think is the most important thing in marriage? Do you have a similar experience or story you'd like to share? Looking forward to hearing your views and suggestions.