Yishu's ** "Golden Years" has an impressive male character who is very popular with women, and his name is Wang Yongzheng.
Unlike other male characters, Wang Yongzheng is neither responsible like Jiang Nansun's father and relies on women to support him;is not like Mr. Li, who plays with the feelings of beautiful girls, and breaks up with girls at the mention of marriage;is not like the "Phoenix Man" Zhang Anren, who only values the woman's family background when he is in love and marriage, and spreads rumors about his ex-girlfriend after breaking up, etc.
Wang Yongzheng is exemplary in terms of morality and feelings. He is an upright person, very pure in love, unreservedly and sincerely loves Jiang Nansun, and respects her and accommodates her.
Wang Yongzheng and Jiang Nansun met for the first time abroad, when Jiang Nansun took a walk and met Wang Yongzheng who was walking his dog. The first impression of both parties was very good, especially Wang Yongzheng deeply remembered this charming woman.
Later, Wang Yongzheng returned to China, and after many inquiries, he finally found Jiang Nansun's **, and the fates of the two were intertwined from then on, and beautiful feelings began to sprout.
A man who truly loves you will surely find you and give you the best love and care. In the relationship, Wang Yong really loves Jiang Nansun, so he doesn't care about her past.
For Jiang Nansun, after experiencing a lot of painful love, he finally met Wang Yongzheng and found his true happiness.
A man who truly loves you will definitely accommodate you in the following three aspects, think about you, and protect you for the rest of your life. Just like Wang Yongzheng, he is a man worthy of marriage and a model in love.
1. Accept your past and accommodate your imperfections In "The Golden Years", Wang Yongzheng fell in love with Jiang Nansun at first sight from the first time he met her. Although he knew that Jiang Nansun had a boyfriend, Zhang Anren, he did not intend to pursue her initially. However, in the end, he couldn't suppress his love for Jiang Nansun, because love at first sight was too precious.
Therefore, Wang Yongzheng was worried about Jiang Nansun and rejected the pursuit of other women, just to be able to love her sincerely. When he faced Lilian's pursuit, he used Jiang Nansun as a shield twice, showing his sincerity. Although Jiang Nansun has been in love, this has not affected Wang Yongzheng's liking for her in the slightest. In his heart, Jiang Nansun is the woman who impresses him the most.
A man who truly loves you will never mind your past, but will think about how to love you well. This point was also vividly demonstrated when Wang Yongzheng went to Jiang Nansun's house for the second time. Although Wang Yongzheng was a little shocked to see Jiang Nansun holding a baby in his arms, he quickly accepted this fact because he was deeply in love with Jiang Nansun. He is willing to tolerate everything about her, even if she has had children with someone else.
To truly love someone is to embrace all of her, even if she has a past, even if she has children, she can accept it. Wang Yongzheng's attitude is enough to prove that in a relationship, if a man truly loves you, he will definitely be able to accept your past, because he is willing to tolerate your shortcomings and accommodate your imperfections. This is also an important criterion for judging whether a man is worthy of a woman's marriage.
2. In front of outsiders, take the initiative to maintain your dignity Wang Yongzheng is a man with three views and integrity, who does not believe the words of others and does not follow the crowd. His love for Jiang Nansun is sincere and single-minded, and he will never deny her because of some remarks from others.
After Jiang Nansun and Zhang Anren broke up, at a banquet, Zhang Anren tried to destroy the relationship between Jiang Nansun and Wang Yongzheng with slanderous words. He conveyed to Wang Yongzheng that Jiang Nansun had an affair with a professor in college, as well as Jiang Nansun's father's failed investment and his family's financial decline.
However, after Wang Yongzheng heard these words, not only did he not believe it, but instead fought back at Zhang Anren on the spot and maintained Jiang Nansun's dignity. He made it clear that he knew everything about Jiang Nansun very well, because Jiang Nansun had already told him. At that time, Wang Yongzheng did not know Jiang Nansun's situation, but he chose to stand firmly on his girlfriend's side to protect her dignity and image.
In a relationship, hearsay is not advisable, and only believing in oneself is the most accurate. Wang Yongzheng did this to Jiang Nansun. He believed that Jiang Nansun was a good woman, and to him, she was flawless. He is not afraid of gossip from the outside world, so his love for Jiang Nansun has always been the same and has not decreased.
In reality, many men can't be like Wang Yongzheng, they are easy to doubt women because of other people's remarks, their impression of them is greatly reduced, and even deny them because of this, and propose to break up. However, a man who truly loves you will maintain your dignity in front of outsiders and not be gullible, which is the best respect and care for the other party.
On the contrary, those men who keep saying that they love you, but because of a few words from others, they are full of doubts about you, their impression of you is greatly reduced, and even because of this, they deny you and propose to break up. A man who really loves you, even if your past is not perfect, he can accommodate and tolerate you, this is a man worth entrusting.
3. Accommodate your ideas and respect your choices In "The Golden Years", after Jiang Nansun and Zhang Anren broke up, they had some disappointment in love, so they didn't plan to get married right away. When Wang Yongzheng proposed to her, although she liked him, she refused because she didn't want to affect the people around her.
Wang Yongzheng did not get angry because of this, but respected her choice at this moment. He faced the rejection of marriage proposals many times, but he had no resentment, he always insisted on his love and waited for Jiang Nansun. Although Jiang Nansun deliberately avoided Wang Yongzheng, he consistently loved her and waited for her, which surprised Jiang Nansun deeply.
In Wang Yongzheng's view, the best love for Jiang Nansun is to accommodate her ideas and respect her choice. He firmly believes that the love that belongs to him will not run away in the end, and the person who can marry will eventually come.
As Jiang Nansun and Wang Yongzheng continued to get along, she finally found that the man in front of her was her destiny, and if she didn't cherish it well, she might regret it in the future.
On the issue of marriage, Jiang Nansun had some concerns, hoping to live with his grandmother and Emmaqin, but he was worried that Wang Yongzheng would not agree, so he hesitated for a long time. However, to her surprise, Wang Yongzheng did not mind living with his grandmother and Emmaqin. This shows that Wang Yongzheng is indeed a man worthy of being entrusted with his life.
Therefore, Jiang Nansun finally agreed to marry Wang Yongzheng, and the two held a very romantic wedding. After marriage, Wang Yongzheng was extremely gentle with Jiang Nansun, and he was also very close to his grandmother and friends, and even the old lady was moved.
In reality, many men can't be like Wang Yongzheng, who disregard women's ideas and always impose their will on each other. Some people even try to use "I love you" as an excuse to blindly demand women. Such a man doesn't really love you.
There are also some men who always feel that they love women, and they must let women "suffer" with them, otherwise they will blame everything on women's material needs. However, these men do not think about it, and women have their own ideas and need to be respected.
A man who truly loves you will never force you, but will accommodate your ideas and respect your choices. Just like Wang Yongzheng, he doesn't care about a woman's past, he just wants to participate in a woman's present and future, which is the performance of a man who truly loves you.
Summary: Yishu's "Golden Years" is a book worth reading for both men and women, and it shows us the qualities that a man who truly loves you should have. Because he truly loves you, he will accept your past and accommodate your imperfectionsBecause he truly loves you, he will maintain your dignity and take care of everything about you;Because he truly loves you, he will accommodate your ideas and respect your choices.