In the TV series "Come on! In "Mom", Su Qing's character charm has always been amazing. However, in the recent plot, she has faced an unprecedented challenge, and the source of the pressure that has brought her to the end of the situation unexpectedly comes from her other half.
This reveals a deeper problem – her married life is in trouble. Today, let's take an in-depth look at Su Qing's story.
Su Qing, a workplace elite, attracted attention as soon as she appeared, with her precise and sharp insight and efficient work style. However, her eldest son seems to have misunderstood her.
This misunderstanding stems from the fact that the eldest son feels the tilt of his mother's love, and he feels that after the birth of his younger brother, the parents' focus seems to have shifted. Su Qing's approach to education may be too direct, and she aspires to create a seamless life for her children, but neglects to listen to their needs and wishes.
For example, she actively helps the children to communicate and learn, but does not take into account the feelings of her eldest son, and even ignores his personal preferences, such as his dislike of eating pears. Despite the occasional discomfort in her busy schedule, she still has to travel, and these oversights reveal the challenges of parenting.
But remember that Su Qing is a mother who loves her children deeply, but in the process of finding balance and communication, we all need to be understanding and tolerant.
She brightens up the family with the power of motherhood, cooks with heart, and only for the smiles of the children. Although she wears many hats, she chooses to stick to the workplace, which is not a personal choice, but an insistence on self-worth.
Her predicament stems not from personal negligence, but from a lack of partner responsibility. If the father can be a solid support for the child, her pressure may be reduced. Society often ignores the importance of the role of the father and focuses only on the mother's contribution, which is undoubtedly an injustice to the mother.
Education and attitudes should be more equal, with shared responsibility for childcare.
Li Xiuping, the first person who lacks fatherly love in Su Qing's life, his world is full of business trips and indifference. He ruthlessly pressed the burden of educating children on Su Qing's shoulders, and the accusations when the children were sick and the harsh reproaches when they rebelled all reflected his one-sided understanding of family roles.
He expected Su Qing to become a stay-at-home mother, but ignored her ability and value. Su Qing can also support independently, or even better. If he could share even a little bit of housework and fulfill a little of his fatherly obligations, Su Qing's road would be much smoother.
His selfishness makes caring seem so unfair.
In the play, the role of Li Xiuping's father seems to be forgotten in the corner of life. Whether at the dinner table or at family reunions, he is missing, and even the children lack expectations for him.
The son and the elder brother treated him coldly, and even the younger brother's sweet gestures bypassed him. When his mother asked him where he was, the answer was "no more". Li Xiuping's behavior is worrying, he throws the family responsibilities to his wife and enjoys "leisure", but in turn criticizes her hard work.
As a father, his absence is not only physical, but also emotionally alienated, and the damage caused to the child's psyche is profound and hidden. His failure to fulfill his husband's responsibilities and neglect his wife's devotion reveals an evasion of family responsibilities.
Traditionally, men use the excuse of earning money to support their families, and women even acquiesce, which is rooted in the huge income gap. However, the relationship between Su Qing and Li Xiuping is not so simple.
Li Xiuping made Su Qing a stay-at-home wife, which may have hidden a deeper motive - his heart has deviated, and his family is no longer the center of gravity. Frequent business trips, claiming to meet customers, are actually other hidden things.
Su Qing found that behind her husband's busy work, it was his intimate behavior with the female secretary, rather than pressure. The relationship between the two is so intimate that it surpasses that of friends, which clearly shows the truth.
At this moment, we can see clearly how Li Xiuping's true face is betrayed and disguised. "
To put it bluntly, these men are inherently vicious, and they reveal the darkest side of human nature in their actions. While pressuring his wife to compromise, he indulges himself elsewhere.
claimed to earn money to support the family, but the income was not used for the family, but secretly supported other women, and secretly planned the transfer of property. The family is chaotic, but they are indifferent, and selfishness and ruthlessness are evident in this man.
Marrying such a partner, the slightest carelessness will cause you to lose everything. No matter how capable and strong Su Qing is, she is a mortal after all, and she can't resist this torrent. In the face of Li Xiuping's betrayal, Su Qing not only had to deal with the difficulties of life, but also had to face his drag, which undoubtedly made her fall into an abyss-like collapse.
Su Qing and Li Xiuping's problems are not with children or specific incidents, but with the breakdown of their marriage. A man whose heart has moved is becoming the biggest crisis in their relationship.
Their contradictions and hidden dangers have not yet fully exploded, and for Su Qing, the difficult period has just begun. Today's topic: What do you think of Li Xiuping's behavior?