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Transnational marriage, if you can't ask for it, what are the possible reasons?
Lack of awareness and lack of attention to the needs of the target audience.
Cognition influences action, and action directly affects outcomes. You only want high-quality objects and the value-added behind them, but you don't want to meet the needs of high-quality objects first.
Only by letting high-quality partners see that their marriage and love needs can be met by you, can you have bargaining power, and then you can get what you want.
Always keep in mind the order in which the world is moving.
The goal is not long-term enough.
Pay too much attention to the small profits in front of you, and you haven't met yet, and you are eager to cash out with your hands up, for fear that you will suffer a loss.
Ordinary people will not be so easy to give you money very early, and rich people will see through you at a glance after reading countless people.
Not trying hard enough to present yourself well enough.
Whether you want to share your status across classes legally, or simply want to find someone who is comfortable with you for a lifetime, you need to work hard based on the way of the Internet.
The computer screen is separated from the heart, and it is not easy to choose a person and be sure, and the party with a greater cost will be more cautious.
I never encourage utilitarianism, but if you desperately need to be pulled to change the status quo, then you need to work harder than others.
Lack of learning, review and action.
Some people can understand everything at all, they are very easy to bring, and the suggestions given can be quickly digested and put into practice and timely feedback, and they can continue to move forward after correction, and they can see her progress every day.
Some people may have given advice countless times and then turned around and forgotten it.
I myself am used to sorting out and reviewing word by word every day, and a good memory is better than a bad pen.
Not strong enoughHold.
The beginning is impassioned, but the habit is shallow and there is no continuity.
Some people's ability + luck are all-round, and they can get better results in a short time by working together and cooperating.
But some people may not be able to be so fast for various reasons, and if you have to accept the differences, as long as you keep walking on the right path and do additions all the way, the results will come relatively quickly.
Emotional.
I am most afraid of insufficient ability, cognitive action to pull the crotch, and sometimes emotional bursts.
If adults want to do something quickly, they must first try to put aside their emotions.
Lack of time and energy.
Finding a partner is the same as finding a job or going to school, and the time you have to spend every day is limited, and only projects that you focus on and take seriously are easy to get results.
You have to pay a little bit of fragmented time to want the other person, unless you are a shocking existence.
Thinking and expressing oneself in a way that does not refer to the target audience or country.
If your home game in the future is each other's country, then it is absolutely necessary to understand and master each other's culture, way of thinking, etc. You alone can't change the other party's customs and rules, you can only adapt as much as possible.
It's important to speak well and pay attention to feelings in the way they like them.
A truly excellent person, her expression not only makes herself comfortable, but also makes others comfortable, which not only achieves her own goals, but also makes others feel good.
This applies not only to marriage, but also to any other relationship.
Focusing too much on the collateral value of the target object.
The other party wants to find a good wife, you want to find a good husband + with identity welfare protection + education and job opportunities + better environment, etc., your purpose is naturally mixed with extra ingredients, but if you pay too much attention to the latter, the other party will only think that you may be an opportunist, and just want to quickly win opportunities and achieve goals through him.
The correct approach is to be the same as him, pay attention to feelings and the right person, and only when you meet the right person is willing to let go of marriage, etc., and fully express the premise, he will relax his vigilance and believe that you are responsible for yourself and want to be responsible for him.
After success, the collateral value is a matter of course.
The advantages are too single or unwilling to integrate the advantages.
If they are not accustomed to integrating resources, then their advantages will not be able to be brought into play.
Integrating resources to win greater opportunities and profits is commonplace in business, and it is also common in finding people.
In our specific work, we have found a phenomenon that those who do not have geographical advantages are working harder to strive for geographical advantages, because the closer to high-quality opportunities, the greater the chance of winning.
Whether you admit it or not, this way is a shortcut, that is, it is to make a big deal with a small one. Only with more skills can we get more high-quality opportunities and be more promising.
There are many more, and others are thought of and written again
Pay attention to the author, get more information outside of cognition, the world is big, endless, listen to it, and embrace the larger pattern of marriage and love.